because even though you don't love him anymore, he treats you like a queen, buys you whatever your heart desires and is an excellent father? I did say marriage, ok?
2006-12-05 06:01:54 · 36 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That depends on whether you are happy in the marriage. The fact that you are asking tells me you are not. And if you are unhappy, why make yourself suffer?
If you are happy in the marriage even though you do not love your husband, then stay. Why should you make yourself unhappy by getting out of the marriage, if you are getting what you want by staying in it?
Marriage does not necessarily mean love, it only means commitment.
2006-12-05 06:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by joycedomingo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, the children are the only reason to stay in a loveless marriage. Sometimes being treated like a queen is not enough and it could turn ugly as this good treatment could be an obsession and not love at all.
2006-12-05 06:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't fall out of love if you were truly in love. If you really did ever love him, then you need to remember what it is you loved. It sounds like you are a bit on the selfish side by stating that he treats you like a queen and buys you things...You put the excellent father part second.... I would suggest you do a little soul searching and put something into the relationship before you call it quits. You can't fall out of something you never fell into.
2006-12-05 06:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by favrd1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would no. You're basically living a lie, and its hurting you, and you're hurting him. He deserves someone who will love him back. It is nice to be treated like a queen and all but staying in a loveless marriage for that reason is selfish. There are others out there that can give you both and you can give both back.
2006-12-05 06:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just in a relationship like that. He was a wonderful man, treated me like a goddess, gave me everything I could ask for and got along with my family.
I opted to break up with him anyway because I don't love him anymore. Now, I'm with another man who I do love. Even though he doesn't buy me everything my heart desires, he shows me that he truly loves me and I am much happier.
If you no longer love him, it wouldn't be fair to be married or stay married to him. Not fair to you, not fair to him either. It'll be hard, since he treats you well, but you'll thank yourself afterwards.
2006-12-05 06:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by TMemories 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would. Why not? How many guys out there would treat you like a queen and do all the things you described? Not many. I would stick with him and try to make myself love him again. After all, i loved him once...i am sure i could find something to love in him again.
2006-12-05 06:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not only about love. It's about building relationships, a family etc. If you cannot love him but he treats u well thats more than wat u can ask for. There r many women abused by their lovers. You chose what is best for you.
Besides there r many people you'd be hurting by divorcing him - most impoirtant - your children. You need to make it work for them. I'm sure you must be having some kinds of feelings for ur husband...and since he treats you well....u must be otherwise happy with him....
SO if u distract urself and not think about love, you can make it work
2006-12-05 06:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by honey007rmsas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, But it all depends on how bad of a person you are. If you don't care about him, then whatever one says will not change your feeling. Money, and everything is more to you. BUT, if you are a caring person and you don't want to led him on, and hurt him MORE. You should really end it. MARRIAGE is special, and needs to be treated special. Two need to be in love to be married, and apparently you are not, its sad because I think he is. MUCH RESPECT, Though.......
2006-12-05 06:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by SYDORAS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is supposed to last until death. You make that promise before God and all your family and friends so I would stay in the marriage just for that because I made a life commitment and a promise that I intend to keep. I would do something to try and rekindle the love that I once felt for that man.
2006-12-05 06:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope...I would not, and did not. That's called "settling". I left my loveless marriage a decade ago.
I'd rather work for my own material things, than waste life with someone I wasn't head over heels about. The opportunity to have love in my life, is more important to me than any "stuff" someone might buy me.
2006-12-05 06:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋