My husband is an alcholic, I've been out of work for two months due to a work related injury, and my classes aren't fairing to well either. (plus it just seems like every body that is close is pissed at me)
2006-12-05 06:01:41 · 10 answers · asked by sabrinaforshay83 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
our current troubles, whatever they may be are usually of our own doing or choice and yes alcoholism is a disease but not doing anything about it is a choice. And there our always jobs. When we are down, we feel that everyone is against us for not being their version of "normal". Well, let that go and force yourself into action mode, volunteer, network, drag your hubby along or make it clear that he contributes or moves on and be proud of who and where you are now. Becaue you have no where to go but up. Use positive people, lose negative people and don't allow yourself any pity until you be where you want to be, by then , pity will be pride...I know you can do it, because I have and I am just another person who has...
2006-12-05 06:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by The walker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buddhism, especially the daily practice of
Mindfulness Meditation - gave me a whole new life of peace, happiness, purpose for existence; it has freed me from a life of drugs(addicted to prescibed pain killers) and alcoholism and selfishness !! Mindfulness Meditation increases Cognitive Thinking, Memory, Concentration and Focus; eliminates stress, worry, anxieties, depression, hopelessness,
self-pity, and Mindfulness Meditation brings a deep everlasting Peace.
Living the life of a Buddhist (especially the practice of Mindfulness Meditation) totally transformed me into a new person - who lives his life to be unselfishly, practicing lovingkindness and forgiveness and friendliness.
"But especially Buddhism saved my Marriage!" My wife and I live a peaceful, happy life with our two children.
I too was laid off and really down, and depressed over many things in life. I felt like everyone was always upset with me, and sometimes did not even want to be around me.
And I mainly sought for a relief from inward pain, my anger, & lonliness, as well as deliverance from alcohol and addiction to pain killers. I desired for my marriage to really work. I knew I was mostly the cause of most of our grief.
Seeking some assistance from a Buddhist monk at a Buddhist temple in East San Diego was The Best thing I could have ever done.
I am now a R.N. with a Masters Degree, living a very peaceful, fulfilled life in California.
This is the condensed version of my story I chose to share with you.
Do not give up. If need be, go get some counseling, as I did from an Excellent Source.
Love yourself. Be Kind to yourself. Forgive Yourself and others. Practice Loving-kindness and tolerance toward all (a successful mindset in Buddhism).
2006-12-05 06:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is worth it, even if you can't see it right now. My husband is also an alcoholic. God has a plan for your life. You need to give your life to Him and trust Him. I know that sounds easy, but it's hard to give up control when you think you have nothing. Try to focus on the good things you have. When you're so down they can be hard to see, but there are some. One of the greatest joys for me when I'm depressed it to go outside and look at all the amazing things God's created and to tell myself that He doesn't make mistakes.
2006-12-05 06:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by jerrys_love 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think there is any point to our existence, other than trying to get as much pleasure out of it as we can. Have a few smiles on the way.
Doing our best to master the rough spots. Everyone seems to have a different way of doing that, so you better find yours... ;-)
2006-12-05 06:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, this is a test of our faith and endurance in life. Life is a journey that we must take, like it or not.
You need to get your husband some help if you want to save your marriage.
2006-12-05 06:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by aw03172001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life sucks for me right now. I don't know what the purpose of it is, it seems like total bullshit. But were stuck with it.
Try alanon for the probs with your husband. They help a lot of people.
2006-12-05 06:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems as though you're suffering from depression. If I were you I'd talk to a psychiatrist. Although it doesn't seem like it could get better, it will, as long as you're willing to work at it.
2006-12-05 06:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Doctor Kicka$s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to make it meaningful to you or accept the fact that life is absolutely meaningless, but that's OK either way.
2006-12-05 06:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to be patient....as they say "This too shall pass." The Lord won't give us more than we can handle....and siucide is an unforgivable sin. Just hang in there.
2006-12-05 06:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by mazey1967 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It sounds like you need a drink of what your hubby has.
2006-12-05 06:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋