i am madly in love with someone but am not sure how to tell her without her thinking that im a jerk or an a**h***. how should i tell her and what should i get her, if anything, for christmas?
2006-12-05 05:18:17 · 16 answers · asked by 23486579 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont really know how she feels about me and i dont care about ***, when you love someone like i do that doesnt matter.
2006-12-05 05:34:02 · update #1
I'm not exactly sure why you think she would think you're being a jerk. I think you should tell when you two are alone and make sure it's a comfortable situation, (ie - not a lot of people around). I would just tell her honestly that you really care about her. I would avoid telling her that your madly in love with her as it may make you sound crazy. As for gift, I would go for something that has meaning to the both of you. I think this will show that you've put thought into the gift and that you really do care for her.
2006-12-05 05:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first make sure she feels the same about u. since i dont know her i wouldn't know how u could do that but try to take her out to dinner one night, just to do. she'll aprreciate your spontaneaty. then after a night of conversation if she is really happy, just tell her how u feel. make it a special night so that way shell remember it. and for christmas dont try to go all out and get the most expensive thing in the world, get her something that she would least expect, like if she told u a long time ago that she had a favorite book, or about a jewlery box she had when she was little. let it be simple but of sentimental values. hope i helped.....................
2006-12-05 13:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Imani J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this someone you're already dating? If so then she wouldnt think you were a jerk for feeling like that, so just come out and say it. If this is someone you have never been out with formally, then ask her out. If she says yes then make it a special day and tell her how you feel. She may need a few days to soak that in and decide how she feels but once its done, you got it in the open and its her move. Go for it!
2006-12-05 13:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by ironica7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would she even think your a jerk or an asshole? If you've been going awahile (like 6 months) then the words should come pretty natural. For a Christmas i would suggest one of those necklaces that has a broken heart on it, the kind that you wear one half and she wears the other half. It would be a start.
2006-12-05 13:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by marjorie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be true to her but don't look desperate or affend her by saying perverted things. Tell her how u feel and if u were meant to be thing's will turn out for the best.
2006-12-05 13:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jayde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get her anything..do something for her. believe it or not the old gooey romantic stuff still kinda works. fire in the fire place, candles, music, rose petals, roses, home cooked meal, romantic dinner for two....but don't make her think you are doing it for sex. put that out of your mind that night.....it would be really nice for the both of you.
2006-12-05 13:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell how you feel and make her feel like a queen and make sure it is a romatic night or day okay
2006-12-05 13:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by lady bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in a cool but sensitive and nonharsh way.like saythat you want to date her but say would you like to go out withme and then blush.
2006-12-05 13:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest and genuine and just do it. Take her out to dinner and to her favorite musical or show. ntw, why do you think she will think that you are an a**h***?
2006-12-05 13:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better play it cool.... show youre too interested might turn her away
2006-12-05 13:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mensa Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋