2006-12-05 05:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by missmoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't ever tell those things to your spouse. You do what you can over time to initiate new and exciting things in the bed. I'm sure you have the capacity to turn him on completely in bed. You don't want to hurt his feelings, you want to lead him into exciting things, he'll wonder what he did to turn you on! Have fun.
2006-12-05 06:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to hurt his feelings, you can't. But, you can redirect the lovemaking to what you want. If you want his hand somewhere he's not putting it, gently guide it there yourself. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want. Men aren't psychic and can't read your mind. Give him a little direction and he'll probably be more than happy to accommodate you.
2006-12-05 13:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Harley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many choices. Buy a book about how to do it, watch the
sex show with Sue Johansen, or gently show him with his hand or body, what you want him to do.Then ask him to do the same. Maybe he's thinking the same thing about you, but won't say anything, either. This can work out easily, and be fun.
2006-12-05 14:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not get better. You cant force someone to be something that they aren't. You obviously didnt marry him for sex so focus on why you married him (stability,etc).....You can TRY to bring up ideas and talk to him...but people are who they are. You might end up having an affair. Even if you dont think that you would, once you get into a fight you might be more vunerable than usual.
2006-12-05 15:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by usafyin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him this ? and just make a general comment on what he would do if you guys were in the same situation?
2006-12-05 14:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by T&E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring in another women, you can be his coach while he is doing her, that way he can learn.
2006-12-05 18:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by shane892000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him how you want it. or just watch some p*orn together and point out what you want him to do to you.
2006-12-05 15:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋