2006-12-05 05:14:03 · 11 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
divorce is the only thing that worked for me. Now he professes to me how he has changed and is a better man....but to no avail. A person can only take so much before they just decide not to take it anymore. Good luck.
2006-12-05 05:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is making a BAD husband (Your words) feel guilty going to help your situation. I think instead of trying to cause more hurt you need to talk and discuss and come up with a workable solution to your problems. If necessary consult someone for counselling. More hurt = Bad. Positive solutions = Good
2006-12-05 05:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
2006-12-05 05:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Blk Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we can't change others, as they live by a different code of morals, and rules. they have a different belief system also. he will only feel guilty and change when he is the one getting hurt by his actions. u can only chage how u see it, and how u respond to it. we are powerless to change others, or even make them feel guilty about their behavior. we can talk to them, and tell them how hurt we are, but if they don't wish to change we can't make them.
2006-12-05 05:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but you can't just make someone feel something. If you are trying to "guilt trip" this man into feeling something it's probably not going to work.
If you do want any assistance. Get them with kindness it works every time.
2006-12-05 05:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant change him so why try? You gotta start making yourself happy and if that means you have to leave him then do it, you will be much happier
2006-12-05 05:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by hotma702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You leave him, divorce him, forgive him and move on. Revenge is a terrible thing.
2006-12-05 05:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time and get on with your LIFE.
2006-12-05 05:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
living well is the best revenge
2006-12-05 05:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him divorce papers
2006-12-05 05:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋