2006-12-05 05:13:31 · 3 answers · asked by cc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
remind him u r broken up and remind him what led to it....it is time to move on
2006-12-05 06:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has hit a nerve with me!!!! I saw a guy a few months ago, and he finished with me, then went back to his ex and got engaged. Twice now he has turned up on my doorstep, with no warning, and expected me to open the door and welcome him with open arms.
No way hose! I know he still wants me, as he has told me that I am the only person who has never used him, or treated him badly, and he realised he missed me. He kept running between me and her for a while until I got sick of it and told him to go forth and multiply. I have no feelings whatsoever for him now, but he now realises he lost a good thing.. and he keeps trying to contact me.
He turned up today, and I said sorry, but it is over, and he is still with her which makes things difficult.. I feel like telling her what is going on! Anyhow, I said it is not a good idea that he trys to contact me anymore, as it is not fair on me to keep trying when he knows I don't want him any more.
I think maybe you need a friend to have a word with him, if he won't take it from you.. if he won't leave you alone you may need to see a lawyer and get a restraining order... hopefully it won't come to that!
I wish you peace, and hope it gets sorted soon for you x
2006-12-05 13:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by mspurrrrrfect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you think it's best that you remain friends and if that don't work then you have to cut him off completely and get yourself together when you tell him how you feel cut it short don't let him butter you up and you end up where you started.
2006-12-05 13:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋