2006-12-05 05:04:15 · 27 answers · asked by veronica reyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats too one sided---dump em!!!
2006-12-05 05:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know what type of relationship you have established with this person, if its something long term or something that has just begun...its hard to say what way you should go on this one.
If you just starting seeing him and it hasn't developed into anything serious, I say you don't need him. That extra stress to be with someone who is so jealous, when you can find a guy who is much more understanding, is not worth it.
If you have been committed to him for a long time and this is something you recently noticed, it might more reasonable to approach him. He could just be acting over protective and needs some reassurance...or he could have some trust issues from another relationship that you are not aware of. He might also be slightly intimidated. None of these are legitimate excuses for him to be acting this way...but at least if he's a good guy otherwise, you can try to get to the root of his problem.
No matter what the case may be, if he is going to date you, and be involved in your life...it means you and family and your friends...and you shouldn't have to change any of that to be with him.
2006-12-05 05:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Melis~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys have a complex when it comes to their woman having male friends, but they don't think about it the other way around. You're not going to be able to convince him otherwise, so your best bet may be to just break it off with him to show him that he is wrong. Even if you don't get back together, you're probably safer being apart from someone that has jealous tendencies.
2006-12-05 05:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you love the double standard? I've dealt with guys like that before. It's okay for them to do something but the minute you do it they flip out. Let him know that if he continues to have these women friends then you are going to do the same! Either he'll see your point and drop them or he'll continue to what he wants to do. In that case, do you really want a man that doesn't respect your wishes?? Or that doesn't care that you are bothered by the situation.
2006-12-05 05:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it's unfair, things should be equal in a relationship. usually. if he's like this already you may not be able to change that
in him. so the best way to deal w/this is to move on. i was with my high school sweet heart and he was so controlling "my life
was miserable". i missed out on a lot of things during my senior
year. i was such an idiot and i regret letting him control me. until i
grew older and i decided to change my life. and it felt painful to leave him but i felt FREE. now I'm in a relationship were compromising exists! and it's great "]
2006-12-05 05:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Fiesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a double standard to me. Have your male friends and if doesn't like it, he can leave. That kind of behavior shows insecurity. Even married people have friends of the opposite sex.
2006-12-05 05:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the pot calling the kettle black? I think you have to ask yourself what's most important to you, and maybe he needs to do the same thing. I personally think that most people need a social life and dedicating every thought, conversation, action to just one person is called BEING CONTROLLED. So, maybe you and he need to sit down and talk, not argue, but talk about what it is you both expect and/or want.
2006-12-05 05:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is becoz he is not really in love with u (Don't mind). It is crush that makes him think bad about it. There may be lack of trust, honesty in ur relationship. Try to talk to him when he is in good mood in a pleasent place.
2006-12-05 05:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes him a control freak. What's good for the gander is good for the goose!
Personally, I don't allow controlling people in my personal life. I would find yourself a different boyfriend.
2006-12-05 05:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been through that. My ex said that only h-o-e-s hung around guys and he was just so JEALOUS. It all boils down to being jealous and insecure.. I dont know if your boyfriend is hispanic but my ex was from mexico.. they are the most jealous ones..
2006-12-05 05:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell him that if you cant have male friends then he cant have female friends. and if he gets mad and you still cant have male friends then dump him!!!!
2006-12-05 05:08:19 · answer #11 · answered by cc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋