I told me enough was enough so I moved out. Now my friend wants me to move in with her...what should I do?????
2006-12-05 04:55:52 · 10 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move in with your husband- alone.
2006-12-05 04:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you meant to say, you told him enough was enough. So I will base my answer on that...
I don't know how long you've been married and what members of his family have been living with you but you need to see how this pans out. If he sees that you really are serious, then perhaps he will stand up to his family. I wouldn't make any long term commitments with your friend because you may just wind up in a situation where you lose your friend because you want to go back home to your husband. I would suggest if he does not get your point and you feel that you have to move out, that you find a very temporary solution until you know for sure that your situation will be permanent. Good Luck
2006-12-05 04:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by favrd1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem. My husband always lets his brother control his every move, and it usually screws us over. While pregnant with my daughter, I told him he needed to make a choice. Either get separate places or I would leave. We got separate places but they were NEIGHBORS. It was ok, since they couldn't just barge into rooms without knocking or use my possesssions without permission like before. But then there was the problem of them inviting their single friends over and kicking the women out of the home. I told him he better knock that bullcrap off or we'd be divorcing. We bought a house. It just continues on. So, now we are divorcing. Some men are just incapable of thinking for themselves and acting like a grown man.
2006-12-05 05:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are your husband's family living with you...who owns the house? Maybe you and your husband need to find a place together and keep the friend out of it.
2006-12-05 04:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kimber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never mix that ever!! Me and my husband before we bought our house made a pact that we were never going to let someone else live there even if it was our family!! Cause it always causes problmes
2006-12-05 05:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by NENA 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you by having your hubby family staying with you, it happened to me..Let me tell you how my story went...
My hubby brother came down 3 weeks before our wedding and was only suppose to stay for a month to come down and work for his other brother then move out on his on....You know those 3mos came and went...I ended up pregnant and got tired of a grown man sleeping on my couch ruining my couch and not paying bills so when It was almost a year, I went to my husband and told him we need to talk...
I told him this: I know you was trying to help your brother but by the time I drop this baby, her better be gone or I will and left it at that...When I had my daughter, he packed up and left. problem solved...
Never let someone make you move out of your own house...Explain to your hubby that you want your privacy and to make them get out or tell him if he wants to stay with family, tell his a** like Beyonce' says, "To the Left, To the left all your things are to the left and don't think your're not replaceable(something like that, you get the point) and kick him and his sorry a** family out of your house and have your peace...
Once you kick their sorry buts out, stand up for yourself and don't ever make that mistake again...
GOOD LUCK ON GETTING YOUR PEACE AND PRIVACY
2006-12-05 07:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live by yourself. After enduring living with others, enjoy the peace and quiet.
2006-12-05 04:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Savage chick I'm a ninja do you need me to assinate them?
I'm currently looking for work. I got bills to pay to
2006-12-05 04:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
There is no way I could. No way. I mean I love my mother in-law. but have her live with us. AHHHHHHHH<
2006-12-05 04:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by terri2003anne 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2006-12-05 05:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋