I told my daughter's father to leave us alone because he doesn't do anything for her anyways and he doesn't help me out with her and its been 4 years he does nothing for her! its as if she doesn't exist..I told him leave us alone when ur ready to be a full time father he know's where we live.
He doesn't listen he continues to call and I hang up every time:Yesterday he called my daughter to ask about school and yesterday was parents nite so I said(if u wanna know how she's doing then come to parents nite) he said I'm out of the state I can't go, and I said then do me a favor and leave well alone, cause if u cared u would be here everyday or at least call 2 or 3 times a week..he'll call my daughter and tell her he'll call her back and he doesn't..leaving her wondering why he hasn't called when he said he would...inturn leaving me with the sh!t I gotta clean up I love my daughter and do anything for her but I hate this guy..why doesn't he leave us alone WTF
2006-12-05 04:44:25 · 4 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't say anything negative around her about him, I do say he loves u honey just as much as I do.. the guy doesn't pay attention to her, he doesn't pay child-support..he only calls her to say negative things why are u getting a C instead of an A (maybe cause she's worried about u) and she cries and he hangs up on her, he wants to hurt her just like he's hurt his other children and I'm not going to allow him to do that to my daughter and he doesn't care. He says he has to take care of himself and do for him and then later do for his kids WHateva!
2006-12-05 05:01:54 · update #1
Question #1- does he pay child support?
Question #2- does the legal paperwork require him to spend time with child?
Question#3- is there anything you have done legally to lay ground rules?
Answer #1 call you attorney to see what your rights are and what his are in this situation. I looks like you will have to get an attorney involved.
Also, it is best to not get your child worked up and upset in all this mess, children need security.
2006-12-05 12:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by jamocha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's at least trying to talk to his daughter. You need the adjustment, not him or your daughter. Yes, he does need to help financially. Have you spoken to a lawyer yet? Things sound like they are already ugly between the two of you, and it's your daughter's future at stake, not yours. Collect money directly from the state, and let the man talk to his kid. It's not about you.
2006-12-05 12:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he does need to be a better father but at least he is trying to talk to her. i think you should let him talk to her but maybe set up a scheduled day and time to talk to her.
2006-12-05 12:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by toni_ioni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋