my english teacher, for some weird reason, has taken a grudge against me and i have NO IDEA why......
anyway, today in class she said to the girl that sits next to me 'are you ok' and then OUT OF NOWHERE she started shouting at me
i had NO idea what she was talking about, and im not going to be accused of doing something when i havnt, so i said 'why?' and then she had a complete physcho at me and told me to go and sit on my own on a desk at the back!??!
afterwards i asked the girl if she knew what made the teacher so angry and she said she wasnt upset or anything and she didnt know why the teacher kept asking her that
tomorow im going to go to her office and ask her why she moved me and really embarassed me infront of the whole class, all my friends say i should and i really want to know but how can i do it without sounding arrogant because i want her to believe me that i never did anything wrong!!
ALSO, DO ANY OF YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHY SHE MOVED ME?!?!?!??
thanks guys x
2006-12-05 04:44:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
of course i dont know why she shouted at me otherwise why would i be asking the question............ i am being honest i have no idea i didnt do anything except for sitting there doing my work......its a mystery.....
2006-12-05 04:58:45 · update #1
i dont think its my grades, in my 3 courseworks i gave in so far i got a,b,a, and im happy with that and so was she.
she doesnt even know my name yet she just calls me YOU all the time and she never shouted at me before it was just today she lost it!
2006-12-05 05:02:08 · update #2
well first step tell ur parents about that then bring them with u to the school to discuss this matter with her
because if u went alone to her she may sheat at u again
ur parents will help u more
2006-12-05 04:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you cannot get a simple straight answer from her, you need to go talk to administration in the office about her behavior-as a parent, I deal with a real nut case at my daughters school (straight A+s by the way) who its not worth talking to- its just better to go above her but as a student, and you sound like a smart lady- go and ask. Tell her how it made you feel and if she wants you to correct something then you need to know in order to do that- that kind of puts her less on the defensive- which she might be. Maybe "somebody kicked her dog" as they say---REMEMBER -be polite, so she cannot make any accusations to you- if you are unsatisfied with the meeting then go above her- maybe with a parent---Good luck. Some people I have have come to find, are not bad- just not capable- and unluckily- some are teachers!
2006-12-05 04:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your parents with you to see the teacher but do it in the principal's office. Make her accountable for her behavior. If you truly were not doing anything to disrupt the class or bother the other girl, then by all means confront her, but as I said, with your parents present. That way nothing can be misconstrued; she can't claim you said something you didn't. I hope this is straightened out for you. It's terrible to be singled out and embarrassed that way.
2006-12-05 04:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by blondee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way it seems is the girl next to you might have looked upset and she though it was because of you. Just go to her office and tell her nicely that it hurt your feelings when she did what she did yesterday and you wanna know the reason. Explain to her that you did nothing wrong. Might wanna tell an adult or another school official about what happened just to cover your back
2006-12-05 04:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ankit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask the other girl involved to go with you? That way, if the teacher thinks that you did something to the girl, the girl can clear up the fact that you did nothing to her. I think it'll be MUCH better if both of you talk to the teacher!
2006-12-05 04:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An experienced teacher recognizes in your behaviour if you don't like her. So perhaps you don't like her neither?
Maybe that she doesn't like the way you behave?
Have you made a remark she doesn't appreciate and you were not aware that she had heard it?
So the best is to take an appointment and to ask her.
2006-12-05 04:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your behavior is making the teacher crazy.
if you REALLY don't know what you are doing or why it is driving her insane, then you should arrange a meeting with her to ask about it. if you REALLY don't know or understand.
try not to be accusing when you talk to her. try to go there to really understand her totally. not to get on her case or tell her she did something wrong. just try to understand her point of view of the situation. listen carefully. pay more attention to her and how she sees it. don't try to get your point across.
2006-12-05 04:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋