She's my friend, she started living with me in October, but made friends with my ex, and ushered along our break up. She said she didn't like us together anyway. We had a weak relationship, and we both used her as a confidant, and so it dissolved. I went places with her, and spent most of my time at my ex's. But after the break up I spent a lot of time at my place. We still went places, but at times I wanted to stay home...she didn't like that, and she got mad one day when she TOLD me we were going somewhere and I said no. She called my ex and told him all her gripes about me. She said my stuff was no good and I should get new cooking/eating supplies because she deemed them unfit to use. She didn't like my apartment(it's a rathole...to her). We're somewhat blind, but she gets her dishes cleaner than I. She says I have dirty dishes on purpose. I think they're clean unless I seethe dirt later or am shown it...then it's re-washed. Just b/c she sees things i don't, she doesn't believe my
2006-12-05 04:40:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is a bully and a free-loader these people act like they are your friend they are pro's at manipulating people and act like they truly care about you and your feelings when in reality they don't give a sh*t about you, your feelings, your family and or friends (unless they can take them for a ride too!!) or your finances (unless you run out of money at the wrong time they don't like inconvenience)
you have already experienced her "turning on you" but my gut (and experiences) tells me that what happened then was only the tip of the ice-burg
PLEASE
do yourself a HUUUUUUGE favor and lose this "friend" as quickly and safely as possible before she really shows her TRUE COLORS
2006-12-05 04:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her that its your place first, and thats how you do things because its no big deal. And, if she doesn't like living with you, then pack her sh** and leave.
You can always find another roommate if its a matter of money. A stranger would not play your ex-boyfriend against you either. I bet your "friend" is a lot more than friendly with your ex...
Life is too short. You should kick her out!
2006-12-05 13:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep other people out of your relationship .... no1#
because every body that appears to be your friend is not
is sounds to me that she wants you more than any thing
or she is what we call a HATER
no time for drama rid your life of all drama and do what makes you happy .... speaking from experience .... good luck
2006-12-05 12:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her out, you do not need a friend like that, and get a hold of your own life.
2006-12-05 12:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because shes just jeliouse that you got together with your ex before she had a chace.also you just need your space and the naxt time she does that kick her out.
2006-12-05 13:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why live with someone you don't like kick her out if she don't appriciate waht your doing for her let her go.
2006-12-05 13:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know sweetie with friends like that who need enimies!
2006-12-05 12:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone for a while, don't call her she'll come around.
2006-12-05 13:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women can be cruel cant they.
2006-12-05 12:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋