And telling her personal details about their encounters???
-----Question from my sister----
2006-12-05 04:22:58 · 16 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, my sister's husband's mistress did not call her.....my sister's husband's cousin's mistress called his wife....does that make sense.
2006-12-05 04:30:41 · update #1
She's painting herself with the same brush. It doesn't make her the victim or the victor.
2006-12-05 04:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing good will come from it. Sounds like he did something to piss her off. In some cases even if the husband gets caught by the mistress calling the wife, it forces the husband and wife back together. My suggestion is that if she wants to continue to be with him, wait until her anger blows over. The other woman job is never an easy one. Remember that you will ultimately be second to his family when all the cards are on the table. But you made your bed....
2006-12-05 12:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Keifer D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad and rude idea! Your poor sister - she should really find her own man. Here's a suggestion: Tell your sister to approach the wife and tell of the encounters to her face; then see what happens. Or, if your sister the mistress wants to help, tell her to set up a date and let them both show up to confront that cheating jerk!
2006-12-05 12:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the mistresses calls out of anger and being fed-up with her lover not breaking it off with the wife, so she calls the wife to hurt her lover. Not to hurt the wife even though the wife is hurt but she is out to hurt her lover for not following through on something.
2006-12-05 12:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think mistresses should MTOB. Chances are, the wife already knows or suspects, there's no need to rub it in her face.
2006-12-05 12:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would hear her out as long as she wasn't too ignorant with her rantings and ravings. and honestly my beef would be primarily with my husband. For he's the one I married and he knew what he was doing before hand. Now if she continued to call after I confronted my husband ...that'd be a whole different story.
2006-12-05 12:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think the mistress had a thing for the wife as well as the husbend.
2006-12-05 12:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its horrible. Isn't it bad enough that you slept with a married man ?? Now you want to ruin her life ?? Why ? Your only reason for doing something like that is selfish.
2006-12-05 12:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were the guy it would suck. If not, it is funny as crap that he got caught.
See. That is why I only cheat with married women. Then they are just as afraid of getting caught.
2006-12-05 12:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just being vindictive. Still why are you staying with the husband?
2006-12-05 12:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋