My bf and I got a marriage license a bit over a month ago....he's 46, me 54...I looked at his cell phone, saw 5 women in there. I called them and the one woman said that my bf had been talking to her saying "if your husband dies, would you marry me?"I've caught him on the net wanting to marry other women and going after them for sex.Not marriage material, huh? Why would a man do this?He was constantly telling me he loved me and only me, that the other women meant nothing and were a game to him, but he's hurt so many people. He's out of my life now because that was the last straw. I've put up with too much **** from him.
2006-12-05 03:56:16 · 15 answers · asked by blunga_dunga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your looking to get even ... let's get together ...
2006-12-05 03:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Eamon35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly. you have dealt with too much. I had an ex that i was with on and off for about a year. the reason i say ON AND OFF is because he'd suddenly leave me every other month and go off and find some new chick to sleep with or just do it behind my back while he tries to have his cake and eat it too. i even asked him when we started dating if he had cheated before and he said "YEA i have.....im not gonna lie about it". but then again, i was the one who kept coming back to him. now i have a loving boyfriend, but i still reminisce on our relationship sometimes.
2006-12-05 12:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did the right thing by kicking that jerk to the curb. Get your nails done, buy a new outfit, get your hair done and step out girlfriend!! There are alot more fishes in the sea!!
2006-12-05 11:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting rid of him was the best thing you could do. Also, go get tested for possible STD's just to be on the safe side.
2006-12-05 11:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jesse2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away and dont look back. hes a player and sounds like he has no intention on changing. you deserve better than that.
if you start getting down and weakening, listen to that song from beyonce, "irreplaceable"....its a good one!
so is britney spears, "stronger"
2006-12-05 11:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dawni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and your question is? I think you've already answered it. He's a loser, why have you kept him around this long? If you're 54 you should well know by now.
2006-12-05 11:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just going through a mid-life crisis. That's probably why he was saying that it was just a game to him.
2006-12-05 11:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a one time mistake and he was really sorry and did not put himself in situations like this again I would say nobody is perfect but if he is repeating his actions time to find another fish
2006-12-05 11:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by steelrzs1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did it already, you put him out of your life. Thank God you found out what kind of person he is before you married him...
2006-12-05 12:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by younglady7826 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U answered ur question! Ur not putting up with his sh!t anymore!...don't look back live ur life, its all about u now...
2006-12-05 12:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋