my best friend always bitches at me and my sis for "ditching her" for our boyfriends. One time, i didnt answer my phone so she called 28 times and then mysteriously got my boyfriend's number, and called him JUST to yell at me.
Well last weekend, we were at a party at my boyfriend's house, but we 3 girls had already planned to stay the night at my sis's house. my sis and I were confessed to each other we had eating disorders that night and when we tried to let my "best friend" know something was up, she was too busy trying to get laid and didnt even care what we had to say.
So then she says "i wanna stay the night here instead!" and i tell her i am very upset with this, and ask her AS MY BEST FRIEND, not to do it.
She gets mad and says "I HAVENT HAD SEX IN 2 months, understand where im coming from!" she stayed and i havent talked to her since.
Its not about jealousy with my bf, its that she went against her best friends and other people who said DONT.
who's in the wrong here?
2006-12-05 03:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
in my opinion, the way she treats me--always in my face, giving me attitude, me having to tell her everything i do so she doesnt get pissed-- she is NOT a best friend. best friends dont treat their friends like that. To me, she is hypocritical, desperate, self-centered and way too aggressive for me.
I dont want to be her friend anymore basically. She causes too much drama and is an instigator.
2006-12-05 03:53:00 · update #1
Your friend is a needy b*tch. Dumb her. She actually sounds a little psycho if she is calling you 28 times in one night just to yell at you. She clearly has no life.
It's time to move on.
2006-12-05 03:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 18:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to sit down and just reconnect. You've both gotten aspects of your life that is different and you've grown a apart slightly which is very normal as you get older. Just talk to her, go out to lunch let her know how you feel, let her tell you how she feels when you're out with your guy. A best friend is so hard to find, in all honesty at this age guys come and go you need your friend to be there for you.
2006-12-05 03:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would call the friendship off. Clearly, neither of you like each other. My guess is the friendship will end on bad terms anyway. I would not try to reconcile with her. Be polite when you see her, but distance yourself.
2006-12-05 03:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by wooliebear07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she was never really a freind to you. it sounds as if she only wanted to be with you when it was convient for her. and when she didn't need you, you were no one to her. so when you needed her she didn't care because she didn't need you at the moment. it seems that she is very selfish. it would be best to have an enemy than a "friend" like her. you are difinitly not in the wrong. she is.
2006-12-05 04:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by freckle face 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I should not be in ladies' affairs but maann she really is annoying, you better get off with her before she does any harm in her jealousy.
What a psychopath and I thought only men were attracted!!!
2006-12-05 04:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's just doing to you what she felt you were doing to her. Maybe she can't handle your problems and only wants your attention when she is lonely.
Hope you and your sis work thru your eating issues...
2006-12-05 03:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by mld122979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this one situation, she's the one whose in the wrong.
You might have to tame her some how, like you might have once tamed your sister, or by dissolving the friendship.
2006-12-05 05:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is in the wrong you just trying to help her out if i was you i get a new best friend
2006-12-05 04:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by lonelygirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is wrong she shouldnt do that to you
2006-12-05 08:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋