The day you went to court for your divorce hearing did you think about backing out ? Did you have a special someone waiting for that final day to take place so you two could move on? Do you care if your grown children seem distant or did they come around?
2006-12-05 03:51:27 · 4 answers · asked by CryBaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a long weekend planned in Can cun...but there was a delay and I did not get the divorce that day, went to can cun anyway.. it was kind of a fiasco because the guy I went with was in love with me.. I really didn't know that.. anyway, he became a kind of semi stalker. lol
fast forward about 6 months and I did get a divorce.. hearing lasted all day in front of the judge. I had always worn my wedding ring.. I had never taken it off.. but I did take it off. anyway, the next day I decided to get my "independence ring." Little ole me went to a tatoo parlor, I had never been in one before, but I wanted a little ring.. and i got my inner labia pierced. It is someting not sexual, but private and just a powerful statement/symbol to me.. lol maybe too much information, but we all do things when we are embarking on a new life.
Take this time to grow and invest in yourself. I went to a divorce support group and joined a singles group. How about learning to do something you have always wanted to do? paint, work out, sculpt, ballroom dancing, anything!! but invest in you.
good luck
2006-12-05 03:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married 37-1/2 years when I got divorced. My ex husband was going with my youngest sister. This divorce broke up my marriage, my relationship to my youngest sister, it even effects the other brothers and sisters. My grown children are distant because I fought to keep what I could . They try to say that it was only friendship between there dad and my sister. But they know different it is just too painful to except the truth. Him and her walked off into the sunset with there houses being one block from one another. My ex used my children during the divorce and lived with him and they can not see it. He has not worked for 17 years and I support him, It has been the hardest event in my life , it is slowly getting better. I still don't know if I will ever trust again. I did not want a divorce I don't believe in them , but you do not get what you want in life . Life is going on just a lot different than I ever dreamed. Good Luck and God Bless
2006-12-05 12:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been married for 32 years and have no intention of getting a divorce, my grown children and I are closer than ever, and there is no one waiting for me.
2006-12-05 11:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude i don't even know anybody the have been maried for that long time.
2006-12-05 11:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋