i have been married for 16 years, and i love my wife more than anything, but its boring in the bedroom, ive talked it over many times, she says things will change but they rarely do...i just want to have various positions especially doggy, me to perform oral on her, and to be a bit more enthusiastic, to be honest im fed up now, and might book an escort...£60 for half an hour of all i can manage no holds barred sex inc anal......or just carry on dreaming? my wife will never know about this...by the way the escort is stunning...what shall i do?
2006-12-05 03:28:27 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes! Go visit! Have the time of your life!
But remember...it is all fantasy. She does not love you, she provides you with a service. Be good to her and she will be especially good to you.
Keep the fun and the family separate...do not *ever* give any indication that you are doing this...to *anybody*, at work or buddies....tell *no one*
Do not leave a trail. Get a pay as you go cell phone and keep it in a separate place, tell the Mrs. that it is for business...put in a security code.
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2006-12-05 11:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by One Who Knows 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
where do you come up with 60$ for half hour? Its more like $150-200 for a half hour and $200-$400 for a full hour. Its not cheap. The cheapest you might be able to get is $100, but the girls that charge cheap rates are not as good or good looking as the higher paying escorts. If your not satisfied with your wife, then go ahead and treat yourself with a hot escort. Go to the theeroticreview so you can find an escort in your area. All these escorts are reviewed by people that saw them before, so you can be sure to get your moneys worth. Its free to signed up, but you have to pay to read the juicy details. A good rule of thumb if you don't want to pay is anything that is above 7 is a good time. Look for reviews that have mostly 7 or higher. Most girls provide protection, so you don't have to worry about it. When you call they will ask you if you want incall or outcall. You will probably have to go to them, since you don't want your wife knowing what you are doing. What ever you do, do not talk about sex or anything you want to do with these girls, this will piss them off. Remember this business is illegal, so they want to keep it on the down & Low. Here are some basic terms you should know if you visit any escort website.
GFE: Girl Friend experience
CBJ: ******** with condom
BBBJ: ******** without Condom
Cover: Condom
DATY: Dining At The Y or eating her out
LFK: Light french kissing
MSOG: many shots on goal you can come more than once
GREEK: Anal Sex
Incall: You come to them
Outcall: They come to your place
2006-12-07 05:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO dont do it! You have been married for 16 years. Are you really willing to jeopardize that for a couple minutes of lust with another woman. Besides if you did do it it is likely you will get a disease then you are likely to pass that onto your wife...have more respect for your wife and for yourself. And as far as your wife goes try doing more things for her around the house or with the children maybe she wouldn't be tired or whatever and be more willing to have sex more often. If you are only nice and sweet to her when you wanna get some that might be the problem. Try loving your wife they way you are suppose to but that also means that if she doesn't want to have anal sex you should not push that issue most women dont like it. Please just stop and really think about the decision that could effect the rest of your life...even though you think she wont ever find out, the truth usually comes out eventually.
2006-12-05 03:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by skit45 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Work harder with your wife. Take control of the situation. You dominate in the bedroom. Live out your fantasy with your wife, just do it (I mean your wife not an escort service). Another reason is because you do this once you might continue doing it and that can become a problem and not fair to your wife.
2006-12-05 03:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you've already convinced yourself, but a quick question for you
"Could you handle it if your wife did the same, behind your back with a male escort (by the way the escort is very handsome, hunky & well endowed)"?
I always think it funny when people say "i really love my wife/husband" when they are shagging around?
Think about it seriously mate. You may get your great fantasy s.e.x but will that quick 1/2 hour then screw up the rest of your life with your wife.
Whatever you decide dude, ENJOY!
2006-12-05 03:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by bagmouss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to risk your relationship with the one you love for a few moments that you will probably regret, my ex does now! We were married for 25 years and I tried everything to keep him happy, but lost any feelings after knowing he went with an escort and he lost his wife etc!!!! Up to you!
2006-12-06 04:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull because i dont think u wanna ruin everything u hv buit up. But if u really dont enjoy and ur wife is kinda boring in the bedroom I would say go for it, because otherwise u will be keep dreaming and getting frustrated. But be carefull u dont wanna keep this doing as a habbit.
P.S. but the best way is talk to ur wife and make her understand u really dont enjoy that much in the bedroom.Good luck.
2006-12-05 03:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by bsk 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"i love my wife more than anything"..........so why are you even asking the question? Are you prepared for the fall out if your wife did find out? As you already know the escort is stunning it suggests you are asking a retrospective question.
2006-12-08 07:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT !!!! It will wreck your marriage as even if your wife doesn't know - you will and your conscience can do funny things. Also don't under estimate the power of a woman's intuition - I ALWAYS knew when my husband had cheated without being told. Save it for your fantasies and work on bringing your wife round a bit to meet you even half way with what you desire. Don't insult her by sleeping with a two bob tart xx
2006-12-05 03:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should grow up . Maybe its you , maybe you don`t excite your wife anymore don`t blame her ! I have been with my husband for 17 years too , were not nymphos but we would never cheat on each other for the sake of a bit of excitement . Pathetic ! Hope your wife reads your question when you`re out . I would encourage her to find someone else she deserves better .
2006-12-05 06:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋