How do girls/women masturbate?

Question

My bofriend asked me how i masturbate but i don't know how girls are supposed to masturbate? Any one know?

Answer 1

If your just starting out, the best thing is to just use your hand for now. Get naked, lay down on your bed, and start gently rubbing your vaginia, and clit. Go slow, it will feel better. You may be dry to start with, so using a little bit of lotion will help your fingers slide better. After just a minute or 2 you should start feeling wet, this is normal, and means you are doing it properly. Just keep going, when you orgasm, you will know it!!!!

After you've been doing it for a while, you can try some of these methods.


With a little imagination, just about anything can be used. Just remember to keep it clean, anything that is going in or on your vagina needs to be clean. Also, you'll want to be able to clean the item, so it will be ready for next time. NEVER insert anything that can break-off, like a bananna, or something. You wouldn't want an embarrising trip to the ER!!

The kitchen is a good place to start, a lot of utensils have very interesting handles. Some are nice and thick, others have a lot of ridges or bumps. Also you'll get a kick out of seeing somebody use it after you have... :)

You can also use the tub, turn on a GENTAL stream of WARM water, then lay under the spout with your feet up on the wall. Position your vagina right under the stream, it feels wonderful!!!
An adjustable shower head works just as well. You can also use an electric toothbrush, not the brush side. Place the back of it against your clit, and turn it on.

You can also hump your way to an orgasm. Just stack a few pillows, climb on top, squeeze with your legs so that they are firm, then start thrusting back and forth. If you have a stuffed animal, you can ride his face the same way. A bear or pig, or something with a snout adds extra pleasure.

You can add even more pleasure by inserting something in your butt. Start small and work your way. You can use lotion as lubricant. Your finger works well, you can also use a tampoon or something similar, just remember, nothing breakable, and you need to be able to remove it when your done.

Let me know how it works out for you.

Answer 2

Tell your boyfriend it's none of his business. It isn't.

Near the urethra, where your urine comes out, you will find a sensitive region. It may be between your labia majora (bigger lips). Lightly touch yourself down there to find where it is most sensitive (but wash your hands first). You can use a lubricant like KY-Jelly, wipe a small amount on the area. Then you close your eyes and you gently but firmly continously stroke that area with one finger. You have to be patient. Think of something, fantasize about anything erotic, and don't stop. Your vagina should secrete natural lubricant after a while. Your heart will start to beat rapidily, don't stop. Orgasm feels like an intense cramp which is not sore but...I don't know how to desribe it, and then you relax completely. Do this alone without that boy because he might try something you won't like or want!

Answer 3

Hello. I will totally agree with everything marnbks has just said. You WILL KNOW when you've reached orgasum, Its like an intense rush that comes on slowly then suddenly bites you (in so many words) and you just want to shout, scream out. Not in pain, its not like that, but in pure joy.

Good luck

Answer 4

tyr this website should be able to help you


http://clitical.com/

Answer 5

oooooooooooooh yes I know!!!! If I put the answer on here I will get in trouble. Send me a mail via here and I will explain it all to you xx

Answer 6

Using my tongue