i am in love with two people and they both are girls yes i am bi but i need help i want them both an i can't stand being with out them in my life ....
2006-12-05 03:21:43 · 13 answers · asked by Be My addiction 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well no one can really tell you what to do, this is your choice, but there are ways to help you figure out how you feel... think things fully through so that way you dont do anything that you will regret. then list postivies and negitives about both of the people. make sure you know them well... and think about how close you are withthem, and last thing follow your heart. thats what i had to do with guys and i have the perfect one for me.
2006-12-05 03:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by sammysue_07 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are revealing a couple of things about yourself here.
1) Your name indicates that you have already made the choice about what kind of relationships you predict about yourself.
2) Your question indicates that you are loyal to none.
3) Those two things say this to me: That you do not understand the choice you made.
Add these up and I see that you have a tendency to form unhealthy relationships with those you want to be intimate with.
Unfortunately, that can hurt those who expect loyalty to be a part of love. As I would.
So is it feeding an addiction? Or is it fulfilling your dreams and completeness.
I am also Bi, a male. I prefer the opposite sex. So to all males that is like saying, "You cannot count on me. You can be replaced by a woman."
To the females it's saying," I prefer you, but I might not be accountable to you."
It makes me want to not be Bi. Maybe someday the right woman will complete me, and I can live in a more peaceful environment with myself.
We will see.
2006-12-05 11:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi 2 so i know what how u feel, just go out with each of them one at a time and try 2 choose witch one u like better, and witch one u click with the most
2006-12-05 11:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by jamie_lynn_duke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it.... you're not in love at all.
Being in love would not allow feelings for someone else. Bi, gay or straight has nothing to do with this.
Needing them both is a different story. Enjoy their presence, make sure they both know about each other..... or you will lose them both.
2006-12-05 11:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Endie vB 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with them both, you're a player (sorry, this is the 21st century), and as far as I've known, a person would like it if you are devoted to her and her alone. So take your pick, if you can't, just choose vanilla friendship, because it's unfair to take them both if they have no idea that you are doing so or if they are against that idea.
2006-12-05 12:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your in lust too! Being in Love is when all you want is that one Person! You don't need more to make you happy! I bet if you were to have them both you would feel satisfied and not feel the same way and move on!
2006-12-05 11:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may very well love them both but there is no possible way for you to be IN LOVE with both of them...there is a difference...
you need to figure out which one you are more compatible with...i know its difficult but that is life...
2006-12-05 11:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by i have issues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are in love with both of them. You might have love confused with something else. Rethink your feelings about them and then you can decide what to do.
2006-12-05 12:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by U2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to weigh ur options to see who better 4 u cuz u can love sumone but they may not be good 4 u.
2006-12-05 11:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Nina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love only two people?
I love everybody!
2006-12-05 11:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by area52 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋