2006-12-05 03:10:25 · 49 answers · asked by J H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does your significant other think its cheating? If so, then for the sake of the relationship you shouldn't be in strip clubs.
2006-12-05 03:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what you do when you're there.
If you touch or are touched (via a lap dance), then yes, that is cheating.
If you just look, then it's not.
Would I want my husband to go to one? Not really. Why? It would make me feel as though I weren't enough.
Also, I know what happens when guys get together at a strip joint and drink -- their IQ and emotional maturity plummets to the (sticky) floor, they egg each other on, and the next thing you know a husband has his face inside the cleavage of some fake boobs and another husband is going into the back for a 'private' lap dance.
I totally trust my husband, but why put yourself into a situation that you might regret?
Moreover, my husband has gone in the past when he was younger and he said that all he felt was that the women and the situation were all pathetic -- that if you have to work that hard to get aroused, you might as well stay home with your wife and give her a good time by figuring out what will make you both happy.
2006-12-05 03:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only reason a person goes to a strip club is to lust over and watch women strip. In my thinking if you are thinking boy it would be fun to get a piece of that and oh yeah and so on i would say it disrespectful to the one you are with and that if she felt it wrong you should stay away these places are for the dogs/pigs and the single guys who cant get none.
2006-12-05 04:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me it can be considered a form of cheating only because if you get a lap dance your obviously getting physical pleasure from someone besides your honey.
I don't understand why men with gf's/wives go to strip clubs when they can get pleasure for free at home!
It's not something to break up over but it may defenatly start an arguement.
2006-12-05 03:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is! Anytime a man or woman is going somewhere to get sexually aroused by another person, it is cheating. No and's,if's, and definitely no butt's. Seriously, it is cheating! I know some men and women say they are going just to hang out with friends and that they think this is bonding. But come on, get real! There are many other things men and women can do that don't involve watching the other sex take it off!!!
2006-12-05 03:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by stacey h 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I went one time with my ex..back in the mid 90's, in Nashville, 2 couples , the law was just passed that weekend that the girls had to wear pasties on there breasts, so the joint was half empty..
anyway, it was so lame, but the guys act like they never saw a woman naked before, practically drooling, & my friend & I husbands? you'd think they never saw a woman too..! They were idiots....we were the only 2 women in the joint other than the " dancers " ( & I use that term loosely ) lol & we could have put on a better show !!!
2006-12-05 03:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont consider it cheating, but if your married your not supposed to look at other women and have any kind of thoughts (sexual) its just as bad, if you can look at another naked women and not get aroused or exited than hey more power to you but if not don't do it. If you want to go to a strip joint take her along with you. Me and my boyfriend have done that. I would never let him go by himself it would cause to many problems.
2006-12-05 03:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by luv_meforever_06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes its cheating, instead of spending your hard earned money on some s1ut who makes more money in a week than you do in a month, spend it by taking your girl to a carnival, the beach, dinner etc. any non single man who goes there is a pig head idiot who doesnt deserve a girlfriend
2006-12-05 17:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by IceQueen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would consider it cheating. I find it more disrespectful. You have a girlfriend, why would you go watch some chick dance around nude on a pole (and you can't touch her) when you can go home to your wife/girfriend and actually be able to not only see her but touch her. I just find it wrong. That and porn. If you need that sort of thing for excitement, then your not happy with you wife/gfriend.
2006-12-05 03:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by tiffany6322 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, but it can be hurtful. I believe a men should't go to a strip joint if he has a girlfriend that can do that for him at home. The same for females.
2006-12-05 03:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋