Why do some married guys have a girlfriend? What is their excuse for this? Why do their wives tolerate their infidelity? Why would a single girl date a married guy?
2006-12-05 03:01:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some guys are immature and should NOT be married but they get married anyway and then figure out Oh Marriage Is Hard Than I Thought. By then it is too late so they get an outside girl instead of really taking time to work on their marriage. Some women actually do not know cause guys can play 2 or 3 women at a time, I'm going out to see one of my boys, I am going to play basketball, etc....A single girl may not all the time date knowingly, but i bet when they know, its because they think that he is going to leave his wife (dummhead) or they dont want a full time relationship so they will take a part time one. Or they can get all the material things that they can get outtta this man, not thinking they are being played, and what they are doing is not pleaseing to God. sigh
2006-12-05 03:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by PhatBeatz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well some married guys have a girlfriend because they are spineless wimps who take the easy way out. Rather than work on the relationship with their wife whom they have promised to love, honor and cherish, they wimp out when the going gets rough.
Wives don't always KNOW about the infidelity. Just that something is wrong. Most wives want to believe in their husbands because they love them.
Single girls who date married guys are the scum of the earth. Any more questions?
2006-12-05 11:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by SheRa 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
These guys are pieces of ****. They have no concept of understanding how their actions affect others.
If their wife tolerates it, she is either desperate, lonely, or a cheating whore herself.
And typically when the question starts "Why would a single girl...." the answer is usually "she's desperate"
Its a damn shame but alot of women are desperate for attention, affection, physicality, a sense of security (even if its false security) and love. Generally speaking, these are things that women need.
And some don't care how they get. Be it breaking up a good relationship, a good marriage, or a happy family.
But the answer to all your questions really, is: Most humans nowadays are selfish and aren't concerned with other people or how their actions will effect them.
Its a damn shame.
2006-12-05 11:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by the nothing 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because some married guys need that diposability of a woman in their life but keeping one which is also rock sold. As far as the wives tolerating their infidelity, most must be blind to it, naive, or they are to scared of leaving. Why date a married guy ? Simple, no true commitment. And for girls who are commitment phobes, it works.
2006-12-05 11:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by LoveDior 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lol....Married men have girl friends because they cant be faithful.
The wives choose to put up with this because they either don't know about it in the first place or if they do they are afraid to leave and live on there own.
A single girl would date a married guy because either she thinks he will leave his wife for her (hahahahaha) or she might not know about her or she is the type of girl that just doesn't care one way or another.
2006-12-05 11:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays people don't care if your married or single or dating. They have seemed to forgotten about when you stand in front of the preacher you take a vow in front of god.Someone needs to wake up and see what marriage is really about . Some people do things out of spite .
2006-12-05 11:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by AMBRASIA C 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness and an unwillingness to deal with tough issues and perhaps end the marriage. I don't tolerate infidelity. To do so states that you have no respect for yourself.
2006-12-05 11:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because they like the fact of satisfaction without the strings attached. And for their wives there must be some kind of financial stability that keeps them around or they are doing the same thing
2006-12-05 11:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think men do it out of selfishness...Men don't come and talk to their wives about their problems, they rather run away from problems and start seeing someone else and tell that stupid whorer about their problems and then dumba** will get tired and the guilt will set in and dumba** realizes he needs to be telling my wife about their problems and work it out.....
or
Sometimes dumba** will find another woman for a different feel for sex as he is just with her for a refresher to a different punanny feel......
2006-12-05 12:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well what some women is willing to do for a man his wife , will not want to do. And an outsider will always be available at anytime while the wife , sometimes will not always be in the mood.
2006-12-05 13:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋