2006-12-05 02:37:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if your boyfriend has gotten married and he is trying to build a life for him and his new wife then you really should try and move on.
If he has been forced into marriage by his family then if you do continue a relationship with him,you then have to take on his family as well as him maybe losing his family,this is a big pill to swallow for anyone so maybe he took the easy route but he maybe thinking of eveyone and not just himself.
I dont think you should meet his new wife,(why dont you cut your arm open and rub salt in your wound,its the same thing)
if he has suggested that he wants to move on and you to do the same then maybe you should start thinking of yourself and try to move on from this.
It sounds like a very sad situation for you and only you can sort it out.
As for phoning him and he phoning you,if you carry on like that you will never get over this and you will never give yourself the chance to move on and get on with your own life.
Give yourself a break from all this and try to get on with your life.
best of luck to you
2006-12-05 07:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tipper is right. Honestly, you have two choices. Keep him as a friend. Don't keep him as a friend.
Staying friends with him means accepting his new life, respecting his new life, and dealing with his new life. If you can do that and move on from him to a life of your own then do that.
If you can't then it's time to completely move him out of your life. You're not doing yourself any good the way it is now.
Stop avoiding his calls and deal with this situation. The sooner you do then the sooner your back on a path toward happiness.
2006-12-05 02:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him space. He's been forced into a marriage that he may not have wanted, but didn't have a choice about. You need to tell him that he needs to concentrate on getting to know his new wife and to allow you to move on with your life as well.
Chances are, he won't be allowed to get a divorce either, so he'll be stuck with her for a VERY long time. Unless you want to be the OTHER woman, I'd suggest cutting all ties until you are truly over him. Unfortunately, that chapter in your life is over now and it's time for you to write a new one. Without him in it.
2006-12-05 02:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please re-phrase this with full details.
************************************************You need to end it all, just have no contact with this person. Seeing his wife is bad idea and I am glad that you realise it also, so say good bye wish him and the family well, but cut it out no greeting at any Holiday no verbal written or visual contact of any kind.
Get busy with your routines, go for long walks to clear your mind, enjoy what you can, be wise for it. Write it of as good experience in your life while the rid lasted, cherish it if you want.
After few months or even a year try this site if needed and you are 25 years of age.
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2006-12-05 02:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know, you can't. You might want to contact yahoo, but I will assume the answer is no. After all, it is a free service, the revenue coming from advertisements. If the email is not used, the ads are not viewed and there is no reason for yahoo to archive the emails.
2006-12-05 02:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by joycedomingo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
consult a psycho therapist
2006-12-05 03:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by indian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-05 02:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by alkalinetrio1103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-05 02:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋