2006-12-05 02:19:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love marriage - there is no other answer.
We live in a free society and cannot accept other people arranging our marriage with a person with whom we've got to spend the rest of our life.
2006-12-05 02:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by the.buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a perfect marriage ,if that is what you are looking for. I can list out innumerable examples of failed as well as successful love and arranged marriages. The point lies not in the type of marriage but in the working behind it. Commitment , understanding and sacrifice are the three main ingredients of any marriage. A failed marriage in most cases could have been saved if there had to be a little bit of understanding between the two parties. You can never say which is the best.
2006-12-07 03:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by SPEEDO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact, both are good but most important point is compatibility. What is difference between arrange and love marriage. India still is a conservative country where majority of the marriages (99%) are arranged marriages.
Arranged marriages are also good because both parties r
thru contacts. If the marraiges are thru newspapers, & similar other sources, parents mostly go for enough enquiries prior to final approval. Now about love marriages. Which means you become friendly with somebody and with passage of time fall in love and decide to get married. This type of marriage has got one good advantage that both parties meet each other several
times and understand to each other in more better way as
compared to arranged marriages. In conclusion, as long as one is satisfied with the counter party, whether it is
arranged or love marriage both stands at par. If Miya Bibi
Razi To Kaya Karega Kazi. Good Luck
2006-12-05 10:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by La Kho Kho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both! I had an arranged marriage and its working, we're both really happy. My sis had a love marriage and is blissfully happy too. I guess the thing u need to know is that all relationships have their ups and downs, u need to work at them all the time. Putting in that extra effort helps keep ur relationship alive and keeps u both happy. Good luck!
2006-12-05 11:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by brownpeepers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The statistics show that there are less insident of divorces in the cultures where they have arraange marriages.
So base on that arrange marriages win hands down.
Most of the time people fall in love by chance so I call them marriage by chance.
You decide.
2006-12-05 10:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Friend,
Love or arranged whatever it may be, the love & affection between the boy & the girl will be the true one means it is the best.
2006-12-07 01:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by LATHA GOVARTHANAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some cases in which it is proved that both love and arranged marriages are the best.
It depends on you "how u take it and how you lead the life with your life partner"
2006-12-05 10:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The best marriage is in which love remains after the marriage also.
Enjoy Life
2006-12-06 03:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love would be best if you want to be happy for the rest of your life. arranged,if it's a business deal.
2006-12-05 10:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged seems to last longer.
2006-12-05 10:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋