2006-12-05 02:07:30 · 18 answers · asked by blossom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take things slow,concentrate on his emotional needs, let him know you love him,light some candles,give him a body massage let him know what you like,and let him know your enjoying it when he does it,if hes not comfortable with something,back off and try again later,maybe he has some hangups try to talk about it,sex between couples is a learning process and im sure you will find your way,take the emphasis off performance
best of luck
2006-12-05 02:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a recent development? Was sex ever turn him on? read a sex book together and discuss things. Don't add stress by expecting or demanding sex, but try to initiate or suggest (for your sake!). Is the relationship stressful, or work? I would be talkin' to him if he was my man and find out what it is, and how it can be fixed, or when will he get over it. What about it is stressful - ask him! And good luck...nothing artificial replaces the real thing!
2006-12-05 02:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can do this. Next time he is watching TV give him a wicked smile and then explain to him you are going to give him a loving BJ. Tell him his job his to sit back and enjoy it. Once he understands this he will not be stressed and will enjoy th egift of pleasure you have given him. He in turn will be more willing to give in returm and explore with you.
Never ever underestimate the power of a GOOD BJ.
2006-12-05 05:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
Hate to say this, but my first reaction is he knows exactly what he likes!
If he thinks sex is stressful, maybe he needs to see a psychotherapist! Another alternative might be asking him if he is cheating!
2006-12-05 02:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by cantcu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him about what is stressing him out so bad and then try little things to get him relaxed and let him know how you feel about trying new things and see what the two of you come up with......good luck
2006-12-05 02:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by missy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he thinks it's stressful then you must take over!. Watch sexy movies together, get on top of him and let yourself fly...show him your boobs, give him a good B-job...help him little by little. You know what i'm talking about!
2006-12-05 02:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sairax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck is stressful about it. Just make sure he knows you greatly enjoy it with him. Maybe the pressure from performance bothers him.
2006-12-05 02:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he is trying to get out of having sex with u. Any possibility he doesn't really like women.
2006-12-05 02:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I don't know what you have tried but there are several things you could do. First though, have you tried talking to him about it?
2006-12-05 02:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explore with him!!! ;0)
(Only things you feel comfortable doing though)
2006-12-05 02:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋