Shall I marry guy who wants to take me far away to live?I love him.But he has a young (6 y.o.) son (his mother died)and I'm worried that if I marry and go with him far away to live I'll become just a baby-sitter for his son.How should I act with his child?Should I addopt him? Is that solution?I want to make it work like a family.Is that possible?
2006-12-05 02:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes, i know so many questions, but i think it's natural?
2006-12-05 02:11:22 · update #1
if you be nice to the son then you will make good friends with him. take your time to bond together and have fun with him. you will love him if you guys are friends. it's not worth having no true love just because of the kid. just be patient and trust me, you will bond. good luck to you!
2006-12-05 02:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sabrina C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! My Dorothy, so many questions, just tap your shoes and wish.
Your leaving an entire lifetime out, you know. How long have you known him, do you even know the boy? you don't act, or question like you don't really know either of them.
What is "far away" and why are you worried about being a "baby-sitter" I think that your questioning us, is a point that you should be questioning yourself.
Do you have family here? why would you go, where and how would you get back if necessary. I think you have to many questions and worries. I wouldn't rush off into the unknown sunset, with someone I couldn't trust, with a boy I didn't know to someplace I didn't know where, get my meaning?
2006-12-05 02:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if you love him, you should love his son also, and the son will grow to love you back. he's only 6 so it won't take too long for you to grow as a mother figure in his life.
2006-12-05 02:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love this man, his child is part of the package try to love him too. if you go into a relationship with bad feelings for the child it will put a huge damper on this relationship.
2006-12-05 02:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by private n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe! Take one step at a time and trust your heart and instincts.
2006-12-05 02:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think about it for awhile. because you are not shore. take one step at a time.
2006-12-05 04:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by janelle p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you love him, and the kid.
2006-12-05 02:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋