the person that was verbal abuse me and physical abuse me call me last night for help but i did not answere the phone and this morning about 2:30 a.m. his sister call me and told me he is dead i feel like it my fault for not helping him please help me.
2006-12-05 01:58:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also he is on drugs and he have a lot girlsfriends more that one.
2006-12-05 03:15:14 · update #1
I am sorry to hear this happen to you but in no way is this your problem..... Now even me telling you this will not help to confort you since you will always be asking yourself the same question...
It sounds like he had some issues and that he though there was no way around them other then to take his life.... How would you know that when he called, it would be a person trying to reach out.... Also I agree with you not answering the phone since he did abuse you....
Again I am sorry....
2006-12-05 02:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sorry for the loss. Secondly forgive yourself, what occurred is not your fault. It is hurt people who hurt people. This person very clearly had issues, ones that you yourself where not equipped to help with, perhaps taking that call could have lead to you not being here today. Sad situation but dont blame yourself.
2006-12-05 10:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by daloveman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie its not your fault. You werent to know and its only natural for you not to want to answer the phone after all thats gone on with him.
There were other people he could have turned to, including his sister. I know its hurting now, but honestly, this is not your fault. You need to grieve for him but dont feel guilty for this.
2006-12-05 10:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look....its not ur fault bcuz how were u to know that he was in serious trouble. the only thing you can do is face the facts and move on bcuz there's no gettin him back. it may take a long time to heal from that but you have to do it if u ever want to live happily
2006-12-05 10:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by mKsTpN0y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand why you feel this way, but in realtiy you must realize this had nothing to do with you ok. In one sense, it's his own fault for treating you so horribly. I mean what did this guy expect from you? Please don't let the guilt you feel over this take control of you. Feel free to email me. Here's a cyber hug for ya.
2006-12-05 10:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just have said I was sorry to his family for what happened and then told them When he called me (i didn't pick up)
2006-12-05 10:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by abcpimpz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why that is so sad if i were you i`ll feel soooo bad im so sorry so maybe you will need frens to comfort you and go to clubs and party`s and all that maybe that will help!!!
2006-12-05 10:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by ~pinkygurl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋