ones might read this so i'll let you assume what happened..... what should i do? im an out homo and he's a star player on the bball team!
2006-12-05 01:39:48 · 15 answers · asked by Rico Suave 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Good for you.
Did he say he wants to see you again? Did he give you a number or ask for yours? Then call him.
Did he tell you that it was just for that time? Then respect his wishes.
What does he do when he sees you out walking on campus? Does he ignore you or catch your eye and try to talk to you?
You could try saying hi to him when you are passing and see how it goes.
If you were just a one night stand for him - then hey you had fun. If you are going to make your self available for mutual masturbation, you can't expect everyone you fall in love with to reciprocate. If it is just long term relationships you want, then don't go for one night stands.
If he wants more from you, then he will go for you if you throw out a few hellos in passing and stuff like that.
2006-12-05 02:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a good time!That's it! He will get in touch with you if he is interested. Star players don't usually carry the reputation of sticking with one person and caring so much. If he is one of the few that felt that something nice happened between you both and wants to keep in touch and date you, he will get in touch. Until then, don't wait...move on and think of it as 'party' thing you experienced.
2006-12-05 09:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by happykat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You damn luck guy - Get his phone # - and tell him how much you loved it and want more of him. make friends and try your best to lure him away from those girls he hangs out with.
You must be HONORED that a star jock let you do him. What a privilege and what a joy!!!! I know that if you gave him real good head, he will remember and appreciate it.
And don't believe that it has to be a one-time thing. WHY????
I want you to show him that you're also a nice guy and fun to be with and that you can be a good friend for him - as well as a piece of a.s.s. when he needs it. !!!!
I want you to email me with details and tell me more - and I will try to help in any way I can.
try to call him and come around him discreetly. remind him that you're hot and ready & at his service. that's how you get the men.
Mmmmmmmm. Yummmy !!!
2006-12-05 11:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I disagree with most of the answers here. Be careful. If you dont mind being used for experimentation that go for it. Me for one I dont have time for someone to be trying to "find themeselves" with me. If you just wont to hook up with someone occasionlay without the emotional attacthments then he might just be your guy. Many times though, we start off as "friends" and then our hearts get into it but its completely one sided and we wind up getting hurt. And to be honest casual sex is really dangerous nowadays more than ever. Just look at the bigger picture. Yeah hes a jock so what. That probably means hes a meathead as well. Be careful. ASk yourself, whats the real reason he asked me to for a nightcap. What were his motives and were they the same as yours.
2006-12-05 12:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by SoMuchHasChanged 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put this on the back burner although don't make a huge deal about it to people because he probably doesn't want anyone else to know.
Try to at least make friends with him and see where it goes.
2006-12-05 11:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat it like any other one night stand, be discreet because if you tell people he may backlash... maybe something may come of it... maybe you'll never see him again. Unfortunately he may have used you to "experiment" so the only way you will know is to wait and see what happens.
2006-12-05 09:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? And does he like you? If yes, then let the chips fall where they may. Sometimes, we tend to complicate things too much. Being gay is already complicated, loving someone doesn't have to be anymore.
2006-12-05 11:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He came to you in confidence. Keep to yourself unless he wants to be more open to people about what happened.
2006-12-05 10:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should save this plot for erotic literature. You might make a buck.
: )
2006-12-05 09:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by 11:11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, well, could you throw more light on the juicy part so that one can opine as to what you should do?
2006-12-05 10:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋