Or do you use a toy? I had never been able to get an orgasm "DURING" sex. My boyfriend of one year is the only one who has given me ONE, now we always use a toy.
Can anyone else get an orgasm by sex only?
2006-12-05 01:37:35 · 10 answers · asked by *Bella Reveuse* 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
And not only that, i cant get it from a finger or oral. I was told one time i had a small clitoris so it was harder for me to feel it, but i honestly cannot get an orgasm other than buy toy. If i do MY finger it takes about an hour, and the only way for me to get an orgasm is to focus on my clitoris.
2006-12-05 01:49:52 · update #1
I have never ever had an orgasm from penetration only, maybe I'm a freak!
2006-12-05 01:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you prefer vaginal stimulation, rather than on your clitoris. This would explain why you can climax during sex, or with a toy, but rubbing your clit leaves you wanting. So just use a toy, or your fingers to stimulate your vagina.
Your lucky, a lot of women can only orgasm during oral, or from masturbation. At least you get to climax during sex!!!
2006-12-05 16:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that unusual for a female to have a hard time having an orgasm durring sex. My best advise to you, is get a viberator, when you're alone, use it and find out what feels good to you. The more you know your own body, the more likely you are to be able to tell him what you want or move the way you want.
Don't worry. It will happen!! You just need to practice.....alone.
2006-12-05 09:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to get a good orgasm you need to be in the right mind set make sure you feel sexy next take a long bath and read a nice romantic novel to set the mood when the boyfriend come over ask him to only touch you but not enter you make him rub you all over. when it finely come down to the point tell him to rub your clit and begin to finger you. when your body start to arch and you start to feel the power of the moment ask him to enter you. at that time you should reach the orgasm that you wont.. Good luck
2006-12-05 09:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only with intercourse one time. All the other times it has been with oral or a toy!
2006-12-05 09:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by JS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go on top that way you control the movements and your clit is being stimulated at the same time you'll definitly orgasam then..even better if your partner is sitting on a chair rather than lying down.... enjoy.....o yes and sometimes treating yourself is better than your partner doing it for you try masterbating with him beside you its a huge turn on for bought of you!
2006-12-05 10:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by keevy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for oral. Let him arouse you by his finger in your ... till you start crying for... Then what you get is amazing.
2006-12-05 09:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by KB M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the partner!!!!!! :)
2006-12-05 09:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Just here. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you mind l am eating and you have made me feel sick!!!!!!!! BUY A TOY!!
2006-12-05 11:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Please, sometimes an orgasm by yourself is the best.
2006-12-05 09:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋