my wife has shorttempered and always thinks negative and hurts me by her rash words
and she influenced by her father nature and he also had the same frame of mind and this causes me lot of mental agony and lazyness
2006-12-05 01:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by babu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not fall in to this trap.
Laziness is addictive, just put the distance, when her mood changes.
Go for a walk.
There is sometimes a reason for it, it a sickness cause by sudden, imbalance of chemical, talk in privet to her doctor and go from there.
A blood test can tel if it is her nature or she needs adjusting her chemical level of serotonin.
Once the reason is found then it can be corrected by pills.They are call Happy pills, do not get it on your own, must be give by monitory blood and dose adjusted from time to time. It Will keep her calm, happy and contented.
2006-12-05 01:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by minootoo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THREATEN TO DIVORCE HER, if she does not change herself. "mental agony" yes, but "laziness" is what causes her short temper i think... be active, keep your self busy, ignore her temper, once in while shout at her real good and at that moment tell her u are consulting layers for divorce.... start noting down the reasons for her temper... make a list and keep it safe to consult
2006-12-06 02:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by pali@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she get over her negativeness if you give her the love and caring that has been missing all her life. But for that you have to be very good, kind, gentle and loving to her.
2006-12-05 10:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by G M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not there for your wife to verbally abuse you.
I understand she is your wife but this doesnt give her the right to talk to you like that.
Take what steps you need.
If you have seen her father do the same and if he is still behaving like this then your wife will probably have the same disfunction throughout her life.
The question is
are you willing to stick around!
i wouldnt.
If you so leave,find yourself a good woman who respects you and values your opinion.
we aren't all the same so please dont views us as that
2006-12-05 09:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you know this when you married her? I've been divorced for alot less. Move on. You should NOT live your life in agony for ANYONE!! You only go around once, make it the best you can.
2006-12-05 09:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
let her know. tell her that you didnt marry her to take an attitude like tht from her, and you need someone with a good attitude to have a healthy environment.
2006-12-05 09:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry this woman in the first place? You don't get short tempered in just one day.
2006-12-05 09:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
when she get mad or hurts u just don't say any single word and leave that place..don't stay in front of her.until she calm down...try it ..
2006-12-05 09:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just beat her everyday.
be a man.
2006-12-05 09:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by ANIRBAN B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋