how come words seem to fail you when you get really angry?

Question

i cant seem to form sentences or the right words wont come out, or i cant articulate myself well, why is this?.......i was speaking to some woman on a helpline before about my psychiatric, psychological problems, and she was saying stuff like, ' as that happened to you alot' and, ' that sounds really isolating for you'', when you go out you must feel really alone''......and i was becoming angrey with her for putting her take and slant upon mylife, those were here words and i didnt like them because i was thinkin it made me sound , weak vunerable and sad. i was talking to her about my anxiety and low moods. but when she said that stuff it felt as though she was be littlin me in some way. and it was makin me very angry. but the words i wanted to articulate to put her in the picture and tell her how things stood wouldnt come to me why is this?....she was saying things like. '' when u ggo out you must see people and feel so alone'' and '' sounds like your confidence has took a big dent''

Answer 1

You are a very sensitive man I've ever known.
Why that kind of unimportant woman bothers you that much like it is the end of the world?

Answer 2

Don't let those words of condescension disturb you. Sounds to me like the helpline operator was reading from a list of "things to say" a script of trash. Life is full of ups/downs, ins/outs... a real jigsaw puzzle with a couple of missing pieces.

When we get angry, the anger is the dominant force in our actions. Have you ever seen angry person display kindness, gentleness and soft words? No! Anger is the opposite, harsh, mean and sometimes violent and rude.

Answer 3

when you get frightened or angery evil spirits surround you
then as they usually are stupid you feel stupid too,
you seem fine now ,so clearly you now have inteligent angels arround you they come instantly wwhen we ask for help
dont get angry and you will allways have the words
people get on ego trips ,those helpers are great but they put themselves in danger exposing themselves to the evils that beset others
its the same for them it wernt to people talking it was evil comuning with evil ,only because you both got angry or frightend,
no need to be alone ,just be nice and you will always have the words.
at least try ,anger swiches off thought.

Answer 4

no longer consistently. each so often, at the same time as human beings are inebriated they're saying very random issues, yet i do not have self belief it is consistently coming from a straightforward position interior. on the different hand, each so often repressed issues can come out at the same time as someone is inebriated. even if that is a ought to to keep in mind that it is not any longer consistently the incontrovertible fact that is popping out. at the same time as human beings are indignant they don't seem as careful with words, yet lower back - i do not have self belief we quite tell the reality at the same time as indignant. each so often convinced, each so often no. i have stated some strange issues at the same time as i change into indignant, yet later on i realized that i did not sense those issues interior. i change into purely very annoyed. it absolutely relies upon on the problem.

Answer 5

the pressure of blood increases the brain finds it difficult to control the emotions nervous breakdown etc.. etc

Answer 6

Part of it is your body is in Fight or Flight mode, where you are ready to fight or run. Your body is in overdrive, and the brain is 'overloaded.'

Answer 7

if you let your feelings speak for you then your not in control of your thoughts.