I'm married for 6 yeas and last month I made love with a trany wihtout condoms, today I found out that I'm pregnant. My husband can't have children so I can't tell him the child is his. I don't know what to do. Should I tell him the truth?
2006-12-04 23:24:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you dont have any other choice.
2006-12-04 23:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is going to know you are pregnant eventually whether you tell him or not, so the question is, why do you feel it's important to tell him the father is a transvestite? It's not hereditary.
Why don't you come clean with your husband about your own proclivities? A relationship built on truth is better than one build on lies.
2006-12-05 07:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, never,
Reason - you ( both)will loose your happiness only because of his(husband's) egos which has
no practical value.
feel, all is managed by God & god has directed you to birth someone's child.
After all, the child has registered father in the shape of your husband.
Do one more thing- Do;t tell to your Bf that this is his child.If u have already told,just deny him & say the child is from your husband or it is a test tube or planted or any other excuse.
Get rid of your BF for ever to avoide future problem ,other wise he will creat problem.
2006-12-05 07:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. you have a bad situation here,always tell the truth,than deal with the after math later..ldp
2006-12-05 07:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, oh why, are you in this situation? You will probably lose everything because you DID NOT HONOR YOUR WEDDING VOWS. The only right answer is honesty, your poor husband deserves at least that!
2006-12-05 07:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should tell him the truth. thats what a good marriage is based upon honesty and trust! and if you dont tell him now he will find out soon enough because you will start to show! so tell him now!
2006-12-05 07:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by veralover23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever get that carrot out of your *** from your previous question? This is a forum for people to ask and answer somewhat coherent questions. Stop wasting people's time.
2006-12-05 07:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you really screwed the pooch, it would be very hard to explain if you had a baby and your husband knows he cannot have kids, first of all, shame on you for cheating on your husband, get an abortion or get a divorce, you really dont love your husband
2006-12-05 07:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on men who lives in the viccinity
2006-12-05 08:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by knightgown_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOY, ARE YOU IN TROUBLE. BETTER TELL HIM RIGHT OF WAY, TRY TO EXPLAIN TO HIM THAT YOU WERE UNFAITHFUL TO HIM , AND HOPE HE FORGIVES YOU. MAYBE HE WILL BE GLAD THAT YOU WILL HAVE A BABY WITH SOMEONE ELSE, SINCE HE CAN NOT HAVE CHILDREN OF HIS OWN. MAYBE HE WILL ADOPT THE BABY. TALK TO HIM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, DON'T DELAY. I HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND.
2006-12-05 07:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by crane1951@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you have two choices:
1. not tell him untill it shows then he finds out or
2. tell him this week when he is in a good mood
2006-12-05 07:34:58 · answer #11 · answered by pig_tails14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋