A friend that I grew up with and who is 45 and who has very low self-respect has always wanted to be a first lady of a church, so she has been having an affair with a married minister of her family's church. The minister is a recovering drug and acohol addict. My friend introduced him to my 22 year old daughter when they were working on a fashion show fund raiser for the church. Well to say my daughter and my friend had a falling out and now the minister is stalking my 22 year old daughter. I have called the church, not leaving any specific message, but I have gotten no return calls. Knowing my daughter, she will take him for everything she can and think nothing of it. When I brought this to my friend's attention she said no her "Bo" would never do anything like that. My daughter has the recorded cell phone messages. I am at my wits end and am planning to be in church, in the front pew and give a testimoney. What do you think
2006-12-04 23:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by Bethy4 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
personally, I think you are all messed up....
2006-12-04 23:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Report him.
Call the cops or something, even spread around the rumors (they are the truth, obviously) at the church and in the community. People will not only give him a wide WIDE berth, but probablhy watch your daughter, too, just in case the so called 'minister' tries to pull something worse than say, stalking a young woman, cheating on his wife AS a minister, and being altogether retarded.
good luck. :]
2006-12-04 23:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by concrete_girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well as hard as it may be stay out of it. You do not want to lose a friend and a daughter over this loser. Let the chips fall where they may and be there when it all unfolds. That way no one can blame you for anything and you will still be able to help the both of them when it comes to a head and believe me it will. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-04 23:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your daughter to do what she must and tell your friend and her minister friend they need to stop playing with God. He aint the one to be fooling with like that. I wouldnt want to be near them on judgment day.
2006-12-04 23:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweetre2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, I don't think what u are planning to do is best, why not call the church board memebers give them all the evidence u have. that sholud be the best thing to o
2006-12-04 23:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by jus wanna know 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I am there , I will certainly stand with your courageous stand and decision. May Almighty blessed you with more strength to protect your love child .
2006-12-04 23:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a good idea.. but be prepare for the evidence..
2006-12-05 00:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL THE POLICE , DON'T TELL US
2006-12-04 23:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋