Girlfriend and penis size?

Question

Ladies, before you resond to this, please take out a ruler or tape measure and look how long 5-10 inches REALLY is. No offense, but you ladies often like to let out penis size answers, but really don't know how big it is. You just guess.

Long story short, my penis is 6 inches and rather thick. That is the truth, most guys lie. I have a new girlfriend I thought to be really compatible. We dated for three weeks and last night we had our first sex. After we finished, she told me her last boyfriend was a lot bigger then me. She told me she wanted to be honest and she preffered a larger size. This devastated me byond comprehension. She has the big O twice through oral and all seemed good, but she said the intercourse was a bit of a letdown. I always bought into size did not matter. I've been with thee other ladies in my life and they never complained. In fact, most had the big O during intercourse. Any help, tips etc, is appreciated.

Answer 1

.maybe she just has a giant vag...i knew this one chick....it felt like someone was dangling a pound of roast beef in my hand.

Answer 2

Depends on what you want in life, if you want your life full of shallow relationships that completely revolves around sex, then get penile enlargement surgery (or you want to become a porn star). Or a giant vibrator.

If you are after a meaningful relationship with a woman, then you have to talk further with her about what she wants and needs. If she loves you then size in the overall scheme of things will be a minor issue. If it is a major issue, depending on how much you love her, get an enlargement or dump her.

I guess if I got a comment like that I would go out and by a gigantic (16" long x 5-6" diameter) and present that next time in bed and ask her if that is big enough for her as a joke. It might releive the tension with the humour, then mention my concerns. A relationship is made up of open and honest communication between both parties. Only she will be able to tell you where the relationship from her opinion is going.

My wife had a baby 7 months ago and her sex drive dropped down to naught. I have put on about 25 kilos and been worried she is unhappy in the relationship and that I was not sexually attractive to her anymore. Until I asked her I would never have known.

Dick size in a normal meaningful relationship is a minor hurdle, no matter what the size, if you both love each other, there are many ways of pleasing each other in a loving way.

Answer 3

Yea I have a tip! She is a size Queen!

Just know this has nothing to do with you or your penis but with her and what she thinks is important. She is another one of those women that have the blind and shallow need of a big penis. It seems there are a lot of women out there that just need that much larger then average penis to be happy and get there. It quite often really just comes down to size of your equipment for them to feel and fall in love. So don't worry about it she is just a girlfriend of a few weeks and rather shallow. But if she needs an elephant banging on her then let her find one. There are plenty of women out there who will love you and your equipment (as you have already found out) so kiss her goodbye if you need to and move on. All she will do if you stay is make you feel inferior and that is not a good thing! I think it is rather rude and cold of her to even mention it to you after the first time oh man take away you manhood............right!

Answer 4

She was just using you and looking for a way to dump you as painfully as possible. What can I say - some women (and some men) are vicious and sadistic. Your size is just fine. Your choice of girlfriend however was poor. Just move on - you'll find someone who appreciates how considerate you are. VERY few women have any interest in size, and even fewer would consider you small. This woman just likes to hurt people, and size was an excuse.

Answer 5

Hi luv!

Unfortunatly, not all women are "open" minded to the truth about penis size... It is true that in "most" cases, size doesn't matter; it is how you use it, but yes there are some "size queens" women out there who do put such importance on size, since they themselves actually feel more when length and/or girth is over the norm (whatever THAT means!).

Myself I've had my share of large (and small) penises... Small guys who thought they were big, big guys who thought they were small... But no matter; it was ALWAYS how they USED it which mattered in my pleasure...

Plus remember that larger and thicker penises make anal sex and DT (that's Deep Throat) much more difficult if not impossible!

My hubby's not a big guy (about a thick 6 inches, but very thick) but his girth and stamina as well as passion and naughtiness/nastyness more than make up for whatever "size" issue may (or in my case may NOT) come into play.

Just remember that not all women are size queens who require an 8 inchers as their minimum!

Answer 6

I beg of you PLEASE do not let this bi*ch ruin you for future ladies. That was totally uncalled for & plain out rude for her to tell you that. Even if she has a preference for a BIGGER size, you were willing to bring her to orgasm thru oral & that my love is AWESOME~ Not just receiving it...it's awesome that you were willing to do that for her. If she can't see that...move on. You deserve better than that. Besides that (link below), average penis size is just over 5" so you are plenty enough & then some for most women out there.

Answer 7

First off- this girl is not compatible to my way of thinking. Ignorant and rude perhaps... Funny how women worry about the size of their breasts and guys about the size of their penis. I am a nurse who sees people at their worst (in jail) and believe me- the bigger the breasts -the faster they fall. Most women do not have orgasms through intercourse alone- there has to be some form of manual stimulation so the fact that she had the big O twice leads me to believe that you are somewhat of a very considerate lover who wants his partner to have a lot of fun too. Now penis size- touchy subject-no pun intended. My second husband does not have the biggest organ but quite frankly he is so good in bed that his size is secondary. He is a considerate and generous lover who drives me crazy. Size , in my opinion is secondary to the other qualities he has. A little inventive positioning takes care of size problems. Relax- I know guys have this bug about the size but unless you are teeny,which you aren't, Relax. Most of us women do not look for a big penis as a pre-requisite to a good sex partner. Move on to a girl who truly is compatible and loves you for ALL your qualities. This girl is just nasty.

Answer 8

thats what u can call a woman that doesnt work for you... 6 inches is bigger than 55-60% of men.... if she really say that she isnt for u, she is not a real woman, she is just there to ****.... not worth it... and u dont have to feel bad about it though cuz u are bif enough!


But thats sad it happen to you... if a girl tell me that even if i have 4 inch penis I told her how ******* fat and ugly she was...! and i never talked bad about a girl but if she does it to me i do it to her to... is all about self steem and she seem not to care ! so why should u? i got 7.5 inches and 6.2 around all girls told me is big.... if there is a girl and says her last partner was 8.5 inches long and 6.5 around i must tell her what the f is wrong with her... no one is perfect u know... or leave it or just make her feel bad also... doesnt make a difference to me.. if u want to be a gentleman just leave it and think is not worth it.!

Answer 9

Ok, the second she started putting you down you should have just been like "that right? goodbye", and then showed her the door. There is not a reason in the world why you need to sit there and endure critisism regarding your normal sized wang. If you are outside the range of normal, whether it is larger or smaller, you may have reasons to actually be upset. But if you are between 5-8 inches, you are normal, and there is nothing wrong with having a completely normally developed sexual organ. You need to understand this.

Another thing you need to understand is that there is nothing that you need to "make up" for during sex. If you were outside the range of normal, it is understandable that you may need to sort of make up for your size with some better sexual techniques and stuff. You dont need to spend countless hours developing and practicing mind blowing foreplay techniques. However, it IS important that you find a way to maintain a real solid erection, and with your medium size, you could ACTUALLY get girls off during intercourse. But again, dont let these broads tell you that you need to make up for your completely normally developed sized penis with mind blowing sexual technique. This is optional.

Now heres another thing. It has been proven on the physics level that attention and heat will make things grow. If a girl actually puts her heart and sole into pleasing YOU, they will find that the penis will actually grow LARGER than it does on a normal basis. Now 6 inches isnt going to turn into 9, or even 8, but realistically, you can grow over an inch during this period of extreme excitedness. These broads sit around claiming that men need to do their research and develop sexual technique in order to please them, however, this is being selfish, and it goes both ways.

There is also this thing called the "balooned" state in which you hold your orgasms over a period of time, which will substantially increase the size of your penis like 1-2 inches longer during intercourse. I havnt tried this, but it is like tantra or something. However, you dont necessarily need this. If a girl is actually worth keeping around, she will give you a mind blowing blow*** before sex, which if done correctly, may be worth her time. Dont let the broads fool you, they all want about an 8-10 inch penis.

Think of it like this, does the Lion worry about his penis size? No. Does the Lion worry about how the female is going to feel, emotionally, when he is having sex with her? Probably not... Now you arent an uncivilized beast like the Lion, but this doesnt mean that you cant borrow some intelligence from your fellow planetary inhabitant. Treat your size lightly if you are normal, and if a women complains, its only jibber jabber, barely even pay attention to it. Ultimately some intelligence and a change in perspective is what guys like you need. You need to understand that there is nothing wrong with you, you have developed normally, and its not YOU who should be looked down upon, it is the female.

Answer 10

She was just joking with you. She probably just didn't like you for another reason and thought it would be cool to make a guy feel inadequate.

Answer 11

dumb the bitc,h her hole is to big it not your dic,k is to small im alot smaller than you and in my 54 years i only had 2 girls complainedabout my size and her other boyfriend had a 11in hard one and if i had 7in she not be happy with that
and if she dont like your size you cant do anything about it the girl that move with me i go to work and head over to his house an get him to do her and i got rid of her verry fast