2006-12-04 22:35:25 · 32 answers · asked by mimi o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't make her do it!
That's abuse!
You can say that you're sorry, and try again being very slow and gentle.
Some women are really into it, and have great orgasms doing it, but if you move too fast, they will hurt too.
So, plan for an hour of being a wonderful lover, doing everything for her, pleasuring her in anyway that you can.
Than, with her permission, very, very slowly inserting.
Very slowly.
If she can get into it, she will.
If not, write it off. It's not going to happen.
2006-12-04 22:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make your wife.....if she does not want to why would you want to make her. What happened to trying to make the other person feel good. Maybe if you spent more time trying to make her feel good instead of try to force her to do something she does not want to do then maybe she will be more inclined to try again with you. It is all in the presentation so quit forcing the issue and make her feel good and she will be more apt to try new things. Also you need to work with her slowly with this issue, try lubrications and relaxation and making it a good experience for her not a painful one. After all you just can't jump in with no preparation. Either way it has to be her choice not yours. Best of luck.
2006-12-04 22:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's the secret of going anal anyway? Haven't we learned that that particular place is a place of exit, and not a place of entry? You can't force your wife to do anything, and if you do, it's rape, and if you rape her, she'll have something to hold over your head forever. Why would you want to, especiallly if she doesn't get any enjoyment from it?
2006-12-05 00:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why don't you experiment with a dildo the same size as your penis on your self, if you can figure out a way to get that sucker in comfortable then maybe that same technique will work on your wife, or maybe she is not in to it and you may have to consider the fact that you can't "make" her especially if she does not like it, that alone should be enough for you if you love her.
2006-12-04 22:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever force ur wife to do something..especially somethin like this.. if u really car, love, respect her opinions and how she feels.. u shouldn't be complaining abt something that is already insane!
2006-12-04 22:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Big man wants it all his way. Maybe she should just tell you to hit the road and don't look back. What kind of person wants to cause the one they love pain? You are being a jerk.
2006-12-04 22:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't & a good person wouldn't want to "make" a woman do anything! Do you like to see her in pain? If you do, be concerned about your mental health; not your sex life!
2006-12-04 22:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
just stop it, give her some respect. if you want a anal find a man, they are waiting for you
2006-12-04 22:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by treetown2 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and respect her as your wife better not force her.
2006-12-04 22:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by sara 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey you been in jail too long its time to wake up she your wife not a booty call 1 you dont make her do any thing you asked her we dont live in cave no more
2006-12-04 22:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋