2006-12-04 22:04:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, if he is cheating after only being married 6 mo. you are in trouble. If he is already cheating on you most likely he will always cheat. Most of all will you be able to trust him? The wedding vows must not have meant anything to him except he now had someone to clean, cook, do his laundry for free and have sex when he did not have anyone else. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-04 22:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by d3midway semi-retired 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No----i wouldn't make it easy on the cheater---First off----I'd plot---and get even (trust me I've done this)
#1 Set yourself up with your own bank account.
#2 Close out your joint account and secure all the monies in your name.
#3 close out your joint savings too---secure it in your own name.
#4 have your name removed from all joint credit cards and anything that is jointly owned.
#5 Establish a credit card in your own name.
#6 Save as much money as you can ---with in 60 days---
#7 Seek out the advice of an attorney---and have your lying cheating spouse served at work. (DO NOT TIP YOUR HUSBAND OFF THAT YOU"RE SEEKING LEGAL COUNSEL)
#8 This is the most important # in this equation---DO not I repeat DO not have SEX with this cheater---he might give you a death sentence called HIV/AIDS or give you the gift called HERPES.
Why should you leave and go back home----You're not a kicked dog that runs home with it's tail between her legs! Be strong and show this lying cheating FOOL that you mean business!
2006-12-05 06:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
If we lived in an apartment, yes, I would leave and go back home making sure that the apartment people are aware that I have left and that you want your name off the lease.
Don't leave if you are going to forgive him. Don't put your family through you coming home, forgiving him, then leaving again. Make sure this is what you want to do.
Marriage's can survive after this horrible event.
2006-12-05 06:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, better to have wasted 6 months than a lifetime. Leave as fast as possible.
2006-12-05 10:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would leave and nope I would not go back. I wouldn't put myself through the turmoil of not being able to trust him nor would I have any desire to keep the cheater in my life. I would be gone for good.
2006-12-05 06:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely i would leave i mean 6 months that shows how much love and respect he had move on
2006-12-05 06:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife took only 3 months.....she's history
2006-12-05 06:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definately!! I would feel stupid because there were obviously problems in the beginning.
2006-12-05 07:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not back home, but I sure would regain my independence.
2006-12-05 06:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Then I would kick myself for being so blind that I couldn't see it coming.
2006-12-05 06:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋