I am working in Dubai and well paid. My wife was with me here but recently she delivered a baby girl in india and unfortunately that baby girl is heart patient. I can not sponsor her here becuase she needs treatment. My parents are old and they are alone. I cant concentrate on work here. If I will go back to india I will run out of money and if I will continue here I think of them every time. What should I do? Money is important or family values? Shall I leave my job and go back to give them moral support?
2006-12-04 21:50:27 · 3 answers · asked by advance ideas 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
I am not sure there is a "right" answer here.
The *ONLY* person that can make a decision of money - v- family values here is you.
What makes the situation harder to call is that you mention that your daughter will not suvive - though needs treatment so is there some hope??
From an emotional point of view, it would suggest going to see your wife and daughter. From a practical point however, it will benefit you and your wife if you can at least make sure that financial hardship does not follow on the heels of emotional trauma.
It might also help you to have something to "do" rather than have hours and hours ever day lost in your own thoughts without any distration.
Sorry my friend, the decision has to be yours, and I am not sure if there is a perfect anwer, perhaps just a "less bad" one for you to take. You ight discuss your thoughts perhaps with your wife too?
2006-12-04 21:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such a hard situation. I don't know what you should choose. Would it be possible for you to find a job in India that would help you to be closer to your family?
2006-12-05 06:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt, don't.
2006-12-05 06:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by theverygrouchyladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋