I have not been with a woman in over 10 years, I still remember how to do it but I guess, committment at my age is something I dread. I never go out, I'am a home bug and I'm happy at home, time is passing me by and it looks like I'm doomed to die along. What can I do to not feel so useless, sometimes I feel like god is punishing me for divorcing my first wife. she was a good woman, but she was in the way of my drinking and partying
2006-12-04 21:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by hosey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all I don't believe for a second that god is punishing you for divorcing your wife! It could be that god is giving you this time to reflect on the decisions you have made. If drinking was more important to you than her, chances are you did not have the kind of love that would last a life time anyway! You probably did her and yourself a favor by divorcing her. Ins ted of worriing about your performance in bed, why not do a little self inventory on your priorities in life and really be honest about what is important to you!! Good luck and remember god loves you!
2006-12-04 21:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've made choices in your life that have had an outcome that you are not really happy about. You made your choices and they were your choices to make. You've been divorced for over 16 years---and gave up your marriage due to partying and drinking? Are you sure that secretly you're a closet alcoholic that is now crying in his beer because you should've changed things in your life?
You're playing VICTIM very good and should be applauded for doing so---your own statements show that you're doing just that! " I'm doomed to die alone" "God is punishing me" "committment at my age" All are cries of a VICTIM!
Break the cycle that you've become comfortable with---Join a social group---take up a hobby--increase your circle of friends---seek counseling too. Maybe you should ring up your 1st wife and appologize to her too!
2006-12-05 06:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's only fear of sexual performance is the problem, then get some chemical help such as Cialis, Levitra, or Viagra. I have listed them in the order of longest activity. This will ensure you are able to achieve an erection when required.
However, you are also are suffering from depression which you need to see a medical practitioner about. By treating the depression you may not need the other drugs.
2006-12-05 05:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she was a good woman than why did you divorce her? I hate to say it but if alcohol / partying is more important than having a life mate no woman would want you !! If you want sex then go buy a prostitute or find a drunk bimbo at a bar ... if you want to do something that makes you feel even better go to an AA meeting.
2006-12-05 05:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you can achieve what you want to , required is only your little will power to smile again , you are a party man ,just use NET or ad in papers help , there are plenty searchers waiting enquirers from the people like you . Go ahead with new spirit .
2006-12-05 05:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go kick the habit with the bottle and your partying, you are either married to the bottle or your wife, or go get a lady who likes drinking and partying together with you.
2006-12-05 05:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Always Can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went without for 12 years until january. now i have a satisfying love life. i am 54 and no viagra needed.
2006-12-05 05:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you should not blame god ,2nd you are not doomed ,3rd let your concious be at piece 4th go out and get you a piece
2006-12-05 05:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by predacious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋