if you are getting bullied what do you do stay at school and get bullied or stay at home and it will stop.?

Answer 1

Well i haven't been bullied but you would blates go into school and show them that your the bigger person and that it isnt effecting you!! I mean you should n't let a bunch of scum bags stop you from getting a education just because they are thick and **** doesnt mean they can make you feel like complete crap!!

If you stay at home the problem will only keep going around in your head and it wiould drive you crazy and no doubt they will come to your house and start stuff with your family etc and they think they would have won!!!
good luck xx

Answer 2

If you tell a friend, a teacher or teaching assistant or family member who you can trust. If you find it hard to talk about write them a note.
It is most important for your form tutor to know.

It is also best if you can get a teacher to catch them red handed when they are bullying you, If you hit them it will be classed as assult and you may end up in trouble.

Do stay in areas where you will be seen and noticed by teacers at playtime and lunchtime.

Do not stay away from school unless you are in serious physical danger- if this is the case you may have to involve the police. (We are talking knives etc. here)

If you find you are suffering from depression go to see you g.p. and discuss it with them or if you are more comfortable the nurse. The GP may find it is affecting your health and write a note for you to stay off school.

Self defence classes are also a good idea to give you confidence to safely deal with physical attacks.

Have a look at these weblinks for more info:

http://www.dfes.gov.uk/bullying/pupilindex.shtml

http://www.bullying.co.uk/

http://www.bbc.co.uk/schools/bullying/

Good luck I hope you manage to deal with this.

The most important thing is not to suffer alone.

Let someone know.

Answer 3

When I was about 7 I was picked on and knocked about by a kid a couple of years older, when I told my dad (expecting him to sort it out) he took little notice and told me to just hit the other kid as hard as I could if he did it again.

I took my dads advice and ended up getting a proper pasting off the older kid, despite my fighting back. When I went back and told my dad, expecting him to feel guilty, he simply said "That's okay, he won't do it again now he knows you'll hit him back". The kid left me alone from that moment on and moved on to the next kid he thought he could bully.

Now this isn't some story of male bravado to impress, it's a true story and clearly showed me the importance of making a stance against bullies, be they young kids or adults, in the playground or in the workplace.

I'm not saying it's the best answer, will do the trick or will be the easiest way to put a stop to your own personal situation. All I know is that if you tolerate such encroachment on your happiness, you'll set your standards that little bit lower and maybe have to endure a great deal of torment over a longer timespan than if you'd taken a little pain that you'll get over by teatime.

Meet the bullies head on and they fail to be bullies to you any longer.

Answer 4

Speaking as someone that was bullied and then became a bully, you have to stand up for yourself. All it takes is one time to let him know you are not going to be bullied by him and he will leave you alone. I'm not suggesting taking guns or knives to school but just a clean fist fight one on one. This will help you with self confidence and show others you will not be a victim any more. Good luck

Answer 5

You do neither!
Staying at home is not the solution - not only does it mean that the bullies win as you are missing out on your education and thus a way to improve your future life chances; it also means that you are being isolated from your friends who could support you.
TELL SOMEONE!
Either your parents, form teacher or learning mentor.
In fact anyone you trust who could set the ball rolling to sort out your problems with these bullies.
If you feel unable to talk to anyone then write (or get your parents to write) a letter to the Head.
YOU MUST DO SOMETHING!

Answer 6

Well please note that the person being bullied is being referred to as person "X".

X should seek help - from teachers, parents, or even childline:

0800 1111

Suffering and avoiding the problem is the worst advice or plan to do. X can not spend the rest of their life inside away from school, and the bullies will feel that they have won.

X needs to help....

Of course there is the method of X trying to become bigger than the bullies or just ignoring the situation, still this isn't on, bullies should not be accepted.

Answer 7

Get help from the school, they have to help you, its the law. Start by telling a teacher, then tell the headmaster and get your parents to write a letter saying you are having a problem with being bullied. Keep complaining until you get action.
If your parents won't write the letter then you need to.
Keep an 'incident diary', in that you write the date, the time, where it happened and what happened. Don't tell the bullies that you do that.

And get support and advice by phoning Childline. Their number is free, and it won't show up on the phone bill;
http://www.childline.org.uk
0800 1111

Best of luck!

Answer 8

ok first off if you are getting bullied by one person who bullies other people as well...then you should team up and tell him to stop as he will be scared when he sees you united.
if it is a group of people or if it is a single but is persistent then i advise telling a teacher first off...if that doesnt work then tell your parents to complain to the teachers and it may help.
if that doesnt work tell your parents to take it up with the head teacher and that should get a result
if it is physical bullying show your parents/teachers/or even chuldline abou it and they will help you
childline available on http://www.childline.org.uk and 0800 111
they WILL help you
but most important of all DONT BE QUIET SPEAK UP!!!
you are better than that bully, dont put yourself down mate...bare in mind that the bully is bullying bcos he is afraid of himself getting bullied so he takes it out on others
hope i helped
and for further help email me at [e-mail] adn i will give u some more tips and advice
:) smile mate :)

Answer 9

You can't just hide away from the world. If someone tries to bully you, then you'll have to face to them. Try excercising what you are going to say or do at your private room. Rehearse several times. Practice makes perfect. If you are bodily weak, take a few martial arts lessons from a professional in order to boost your self confidence, although attitude is the most important.

Answer 10

You should practice giving a good punch, and then donkey punch the bully when he's not looking, or pick up a chair and smash it over his head when he's not looking.

Sure, you'll get in trouble, and you'll probably get beat up by him, but he'll think twice before bullying you again after that. Don't be afraid to get into trouble, and don't be afraid to get hurt. Go on the offense, but be prepared and take calculated risks.