Hi all.
I joined a club, and started talking to the boss. She was always looking at me when i was there. Then she found out about my sexuality. After that she started flirting with me, for over a year and i didn't do anything back. Then i dissapeard for the last quater of that year. This year i came back and she was very pleased to see me again. She started flirting again and i ignored her. Later on in the year she asked me to work for her. i agreed. She asked me if i was going away after next year and i said yes, then she told me she'll follow me. One day she came to me to fetch some of the papers and told me about her boyfriend, for the first time. She always told me she is so alone and now she tells me she has had a boyfriend? She then asked me if she could give me a hug, and then i said no. Then she came forward and hugged me for a long time. then i pushed her away and she did it again. When she let go of me she tried to kiss me and i pushed her away
2006-12-04 20:39:21 · 11 answers · asked by Xena (lesbian) 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You named yourself as Xena (lesbian) ,, so if you are a Lesbian why do you reject her,, she look very much in love with you ,,she did he part,, now its your turn,, go and tell her if you would like her into your life or not and if not you should tell why
2006-12-04 22:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by herosam2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so for all intents and purposes she's straight. She has a boyfriend and I'm willing to bet she's never been with a girl before. If she has it's only been sexual, not a relationship. Maybe she thinks she really wants to be with a girl though, and she met you and she finds out your sexual orientation and she likes you so she figures she'll try you out. And this doesn't make her a bad person, but she wouldn't be a good person to try to date. She's going to have all these uncertainties about her sexuality, plus she sounds like she probably has low self esteem, just based on the fact that she kept flirting well after you let it be obvious you weren't interested. I'd say get out of there... she's got issues, and they can be someone else's problem.
2006-12-04 20:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am straight, but now on the other hand I also get what I want, how I want, when I want and there are no provisions, it has made me rich.
2006-12-04 23:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes trouble and doesnt know what she wants i would stay well clear.
2006-12-04 20:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants you. I think the boyfriend is a fabrication.
2006-12-04 20:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just curious perhaps. not happy with boyf, finds you interesting, wants to give it a go? thats how it looks to me.
2006-12-04 22:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the boyfriend thing is just to get closer to you. she badly wants you
2006-12-04 21:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not straight, not bi. She's a lesbian..just doesn't know it yet. or ignores it.
2006-12-04 20:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's bi or lesbian.You should ask what she want from you.
2006-12-04 21:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by niohogr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you, this could also be considered as sexual harassment.
2006-12-04 20:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋