2006-12-04 18:20:21 · 5 answers · asked by tony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
- You can't command love.
2006-12-08 14:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make the guy do anything. But you can encourage him by inviting his emotional and physical dependence on you,....then, withdrawing it suddenly, deliberately inducing insecurity. He may wake-up to fact of a deep need for securing the relationship,....or he may cut the cord, too. But, you'll probably force his decision one way or the other.
2006-12-05 02:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by artaxerxes-solon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my previous experiences, any time i wanted to be closer to someone, i would push them away in hopes that they would care enough to come running back to me... it never worked and i always ended up alone and heart broken. my suggestion to you is, you cannot change anyone and you should NEVER change for them. you are who you are and if they do not accpet that and love that then they are not worthy of the love you have to offer them in return. just be yourself, thats all you should ever be. when he is ready to settle he will, it may not be soon, and it may not be with you... good luck.
2006-12-05 02:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by ashkro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has to be (or act like) more non-committal person than he is
2006-12-05 02:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me u can't! Everything is about time. Maybe he will come around or maybe he won't. You have to face reality.
2006-12-05 03:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋