X cheated me, troubled me, so should i text her for x'mas,
she sends me sms everyweek, i dont repond, i am married
settled, my birthday falls sameday of x mas, she will send me
sms, should i say thanks...confused, i dont like to hurt eventhough
she did...whats your take on this???
2006-12-04 18:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't sms her. You should call her back as soon as you receive her x'mas greeting via sms. Thank her for the greeting and then promptly tell her that as much as you care about her, you have a family that you care for more and you cannot risk it by keeping in contact with her.
I personally cannot believe that you haven't told her this - she's been contacting you every week! You should do the right thing by your family, especially your wife.
If she refuses to stop contacting you, please tell your wife about her. At least she's not kept in the dark about the situation and you're at last being honest.
I hope you'll have the courage to do what you gotta do. Good luck!
2006-12-04 18:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by *~liYana~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should say thanx and wish her for xmas also. no matter how far u hate her or u dont want 2 see her, u should forget ur values and be ill-mannered. show her that u still have some care for her.
2006-12-05 02:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheated u means a terrible thing, can lead a relationship - strangers
why is she still contacting u then? if she is the one who cheated u, she should be the one who wont come back for u
need more details...
2006-12-05 06:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to know how you would feel if your wife was in your shoes. If she was trouble and you are married then why would you consider contacting her?
2006-12-05 02:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does she still have your phone #???....how would you feel if your wife gets sms's from her X bf??? are you sure you know what marriage means???....hope you are mature enough to figure out what to do about sms.........
2006-12-05 03:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say thank you and say it is alright to be friends
2006-12-05 02:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by hip.hop.gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋