I think its a load of crap when people say they can't control themselves and end up having sex. You know once your pants come off what's gonna come next. And then you end up getting pregnant or get an STD. Unless you were raped/molested, you both know what you were doing. Anyone agree???
2006-12-04 17:34:29 · 20 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, people can control themselves - sometimes, they make a conscious decision not to! But, when they act out sexually, afterwards they realize that there are consequences - so they claim that they couldn't control themselves when of course they were in control the whole time.
2006-12-04 17:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right .but when it the first time then it become like a drug. it become a habit. it all about instant gratification.it all about what make you feel good.there a big different between making love and having sex. it controllable if you don't start the first one.but after that your on a mission. you could control it but it not easy.it hard because we have two head and one Brian but the other one dose the thinking for us.c/ya/peace
2006-12-05 01:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by SENSES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it a fact then men think with their p**is? Before you even get that far should you not be prepared? If you are that uncontrolled stay away from possible situations. There are already too many under privileged, unwanted and needy children in this world.
2006-12-05 01:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mandi_Moo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is getting a condom that difficult?I dont know about your country, but in Singapore you just have to headdown to the nearby 7-11 24 hours store to get one.And yeah, passion is hard to stop once you are feeling it...maybe they are both "in the mood" and didnt think much about the consequences...
2006-12-05 01:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2006-12-05 01:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you bonita! but it also depends on how someone has been brought up....the family & the environment.
there are so many factors that contributes to these (condom ads, movies, peer pressure, songs, books). it's their choice. hopefully, they just won't regret it in the end.
2006-12-05 01:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by shyanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree
Some people like to do it raw
There are some people you can't tell anything - the best lesson is a bought lesson
2006-12-05 01:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point where your brain actually shuts off and you have to have sex. This is what seperates us from the animals.
2006-12-05 01:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by svcouple7677 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but people are no longer taught reasons to say no. Morals are called "judgmental" and everyone goes with this "follow your heart" nonsense.
2006-12-05 01:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, both party will know what they are doing
both can be reduced to their undies but if self-control is there, sex wont take place
i know because im in one(nothing dirty)
2006-12-05 06:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋