I was 16 yrs old and I didn't bleed or "tight". It was my honesty 1st but he didn't believe me. He told me I was supposed to bleed and that my vigina was supposed to be tight. Plus he insisted that I was supposed to scream like crazy. Would you females please tell me what HAPPENED on your 1st. I want to print all of your answers out and throw it at his face!
2006-12-04 17:22:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
forgot to tell everybody that I never had worn insertion tampon, I only wore pads before my 1st. I don't think my hymen break from pads. I never had and never will masturbate. My vigina was loose though comparing to his I had to say pushpop size penis. So why is he so obsessed with "blood! tight! scream!" he should be glad that he got a virgin! I had saved myself for this idiot for a long time and now he's acusing me of being a slut because I didn't bleed!
2006-12-04 18:33:06 · update #1
I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I know that those guys can be a pain to deal with.
Make sure to tell him, that not even a doctor can diagnose you as a virgin based on a hymen or "tightness". You can break your hymen doing everyday things, even doing something as silly as climbing in and out of a car (yes i know this sounds silly).
Some guys don't think girls are as tight due to thier own size, the position that you were in, or even due to you being relaxed before "the deed".
Please enjoy the satisfaction of knowing that you were able to honestly tell him that you were a virgin.
2006-12-04 18:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by lemonheadaddict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a dummy. Sorry I know you really like him but seriously. One of my friends is in medical classes in college and she told me that some girl's will never bleed because of sex. I asked because I didn't when I lost my virginity. The reason why is because the 'cherry' is different sizes for all girls and also some guys penises are just too small. I'm not saying he is small but maybe your cherry is. That is never a bad thing. Maybe if you end up with someone else he might pop your cherry but until then don't ever let a guy call you a #### because of something like this or anything. If he honestly cared he wouldn't let another guy call you a #### let alone himself. Also about it hurting. No it doesn't always. Mine did for about 1 minute then it was ok. I never have screamed durring sex either. And you shouldn't HAVE to to please a man. Dang just record yourself screaming onto a tape and next time he wants to have sex hand him the tape and tell him that his hand should be good and it will be screaming.
2006-12-05 02:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not bleed my first time either. I did however on my second and third time. Bleeding doesn't mean anything as far as virginity is concerned. It sounds like he has trust issues with you. And it sounds like he's been fed the wrong info about virginity. Some girls do not bleed because they were born without a hymen or theirs was torn/broken previously by a variety of things....exercise, gymnastics, tampons, etc. He needs to learn the facts! Oh, and mine did not hurt so I wasn't screaming in pain. Every girl is different and no first time experience is the same.
2006-12-05 02:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy that your are with sounds like a complete idiot! Lots of girls do not bleed for their first time. The blood is caused by the hymen breaking, this can happen riding a horse, doing exercises or inserting a tampon.
When you print these out and throw them in his face, I really hope that you enjoy it and make sure he realises what an ignorant fool he is.
2006-12-05 01:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bled the first time for about a week and I didn't scream. Maybe I wasnt a type to scream out. Some girls are born with out a hymen or it might of broke when riding a bike or horse. Not all women have to bleed after their first sexual intercourse. And not all women are the type to scream. Hey, and maybe his penis was to slim to feel anything anyways. Good luck. I hope this info helped you
2006-12-05 01:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by HeavensAbove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my first time I did bleed (a lot), but we didn't notice until afterwards. There was a six inch diameter circle on his mattress. I was also tight and it hurt, but not so bad that I would scream because he knew what he was doing (he was not a virgin) so my first time wasn't all that bad because it stopped hurting as he went on.
I also bled (spotted) up to four days afterward, was sore there, and got a UTI from it.
2006-12-05 01:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok every girl is diffrent,and hunny ive been having sex for 12 years and i dont scream like crazy. well with me my first time it did hurt, but i was young not fully developed yet, and i did bleed, but here is a good web page for you to print and shove in his face lol its a good website to inform him. so i hope it helps oh and there are some picutres so be prepared and look at it when no one else is a round k its the second one not the top sorry
2006-12-05 03:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first time kinda hurt but i wasnt yelling my head off! or didnt scream at all i did kind of bleed but no where it was bright red blood it was more like a really light pink and once i wiped myself the first time it went away i didnt have to keep wiping myself or had to wear a pad or anything! sometimes i hear girls say they never bled or it didnt hurt at all!
2006-12-05 01:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hon, dont worry I didnt hurt at all the first time but I did bleed. The problem might be with your bf. Perhaps his penis is too small or thin to really hurt you or to break your hymen. Dont let him bother you the problem is with his small tool.
2006-12-05 02:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by linda g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it did hurt but i didn't scream out i would hold my breath . when i went to pee that when i noticed the blood . because thats all that came out. i've been screwin over 4 yrs and it still hurts and i still bleed afterward. so it just depends on the person
2006-12-05 01:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by mizpew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋