OK, stop laughing. This is serious. My GF (we've been dating for about 2 months) has an issue with odor in her privates. It's not (sorry for the crudeness) the well quoted "rotten fish" smell, it's more of a body odor and urine smell amoung others. She doesn't trim her pubic hair that close and I've also noticed she doesn't wipe after she urinates and also does not "clean up" after we've had sex like every other GF I've ever had did.
This is starting to really bother me. Is there ANY way I can ask her to do something about it without coming off like a jerk?
2006-12-04 17:22:00 · 15 answers · asked by George W. B 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Do not buy her douche or any feminine hygeine products as the vagina is self cleaning. You mentioned that she doesn't wipe after urinating so that would mean you have seen her use the bathroom. For that I would ask her in a casual way WHY she doesn't wipe after using urinating and then tell her that you learned in health class that women need wipe etc. As for cleaning up after sex that is a personal preference because if you use a condom there is no semen leaking out of her vagina and if you don't use a condom then it will leak out for several hours anyway. I would suggest the two of you shower before or after sex as foreplay or after play though to get her used to the idea of being more clean for you.
2006-12-04 17:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is really nothing you can do about it. to be honest.. girls who don't wipe themself and has a bad odor tend to have yeast infection or vaginal infection. One of the reason is because after she urine and doesnt wipe, her panty gets wet and starts to create this uncomfortable feeling. Than that is when yeast is starting to form and gives her this bad rotten fish smell. Well when a girl has a bad odor, she should be able to smell it herself and tell whether something is wrong with her body. Even myself, when i pee, i could smell it.. common who eles doesn't .
However there is a cream to prevent it from smelling and its available at the pharmacy. Its not that expensive and it does work. Well you can carefully try to explain it to her and a nicer way so she won't get offended.. And if she doesn't seek treatment, it'll get even worst and just think about it. Could you stand that smell for the rest of your life.. No way I can't ... Take kare.,.
2006-12-05 01:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she sounds like a right Minger. You can do better mate you might as well going be friend the local bang lady anyway. Telling her in a nice way lets see OK um tell her the truth just say that she needs to start wiping her self because she is grossing you out and if she does not fix up your going to leave her.
Good Luck
Had another ideal book a waxing session for her at her local beauty salon and get her or neat and tidy and then tell her to keep it like that. Hopefully she will then see the light through the bush
2006-12-05 01:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by deb_star_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Tell her that because she doesn't wipe after urinating and doesn't clean up after sex, she has a body odor that many find offensive. If you care, you'll tell her. Other people smell it too.
Also, seek relationships with people who smell clean and have good hygeine.
2006-12-05 01:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to take a shower with you before sex. That way you ensure she is clean.
I have never heard of such a dirty woman (literally). She is bound to get a UTI (or worse) infection since she doesn't keep herself clean there. I hope so. Then she'll learn her lesson.
2006-12-05 01:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awful, the way you describe her personal hygiene is not a high priority. Likely she will not change so you may want to think about getting a girlfriend who is clean. This may happen sooner than you think once you let her see this posting.
2006-12-05 01:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by mr.answerman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyway you say it you will deff. come off as the bad guy-SORRY. Even Harry Houdini couldn't pull that trick off.
If you plan on keeping her around, a shared shower before intimacy would be a help.
2006-12-05 03:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tumbleweed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad news, you are going to come off like a jerk. I just think that if you ask her in the nicest way possible that is all that you can do...then brace for retaliation.
2006-12-05 01:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just pure laziness an very poor hygiene, if you really like her why don't you just be honest and strait with her its the least you could do an if she cant respect you for your honesty then let her go or deal with it i guess, quiet frankly you'd be doing her a favour an yourself. good-luck with that Hun
2006-12-05 01:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by WESTIE GURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could instead invite her to take a shower with you and then initiate sex, at least she took a shower right before... that should help some
2006-12-05 01:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋