What makes it weird is he didn't tell me; it was hidden in his history on his computer. He's old enough to be her father. If it's so innocent why doesn't he tell me he's been looking at these scummy sites? We have been married 14 years this December. I think I shouldn't trust a guy who does this.
2006-12-04 16:42:02 · 30 answers · asked by Canuckgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is male let him be a male
we are visual
we like naked women
men who dont like naked females are homosexual
why would he tell you? you obviously dont approve, why would he want to get intoa fight?
you sound like a difficult person to be married too
2006-12-04 16:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there are any scummy porn photos of old Trailer Trash out there yet. So it's not as scummy as you might think - scummy to a guy is 300 eels crawling out of a woman's cooch. Then up her butt. Seriously. Spears used to be cute and now she's a washed up hag. Some guys just like looking at celebrities.
it's not innocent - but it's exciting! No one said looking at crotches was innocent. It's horny and fun and nasty - just what sexual feelings should be. So, ask yourself, what are the odds he's ever going to bang Britney? Zero. Less than zero. So why don't you calm down? It's a dream and it will never be aything else. Making it truly harmless.
What? You've never looked at a cute guy's butt before? Please. Stop with the self-righteous bullsh*t. We all look and it's human nature. You're just finding an excuse. What's the *real* problem with trust? Deal with that, whatever it is.
2006-12-05 01:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he was curious after the story was all over the news. And when exactly did you expect him to tell you? During dinner, "Hey honey, pass the salt and oh by the way, i was looking at Britney's crotch on the net".
I think the more important question here is, why do you feel the need to go through the history of what your husband has been browsing? Do you not trust him?
2006-12-05 00:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relax. This thing about Brits Beav has been going around in the streets, work places, etc. . . . It is the only thing people are talking about and I'm sure he was just curious to see what all the hoopla is about. If you had found 50 gigs of the "good stuff" then you might want to worry. This is just a fad thing he just had to see for himself because no one would shut up about it. Confront him peacefully and tell him you were upset, I'm sure the answer he gives you today will be the one the man you fell in love with 14 years ago would give.
2006-12-05 00:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Another Garcia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As far as Britney Spears is concerned, it is 'sicko'. She is like a train wreck and we just can't look away. Because this topic has had so much media exposure, curiosity might have just got the best of him. (I looked it up too- train wreck thing) If this is an isolated incident, it is probably no big deal, yucky, but no big deal. If it really bothers you after some reflection, bring it up! He'll most likely be way embarrassed, but he'll know where you stand.
2006-12-05 01:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well thats what you call human nature. Opposite sex attracts.
The main concern is that why he goes to porn stuff? Maybe you are not sexually active with him after 14 years of marriage, maybe he doesnt feel you more attractive, maybe he have some problem which he fears if discussed with you may upset you.
So answer to this problem is not anger, but more trust. Show him your confindence and trust with him, try to discuss and solve the issue.Ask him if he wants to be little naughty n sexy as your wer before. I hope if you can satisfy him, and trust him, he will never watch porn again. Tell him that you can be his britney spears and can watch her live and play with her.
All i can say is dont lose your trust in relationship, otherwise it will fade away.
2006-12-05 00:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by hard_2forget 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you told him you have been secretly checking up on him? Its news. Cant blame him for being curious. If your trust is that easily betrayed then you have some serious issues. Perhaps you are insecure. Maybe about the age thing? Not as young as you used to be? Happens to everyone. Now if your brother's wife were emailing him nude photos of herself thats a different story. keep looking, if you want out of this marriage bad enough Im sure you will find something.
2006-12-05 00:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's like watching an alligator eat a pig. Ugly, but still mesmerizing. Expecially when we're not the pig.
It could be as innocent as hearing it on TV or seeing a story on the net about it and doing a search.
2006-12-05 00:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious?... this reaction is exactly why the poor guy didnt tell you!!
he prolly heard about this in an email like 99% of us have and was curious, and do you think he could say baby, look at this! and get an *** chewing or some other reaction from you?
I am certain you would pull the same tone your question has a gut the poor guy alive. I think he should run, and run fast!
2006-12-05 01:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lady get a life
theres nothing wrong with watching porn
give the guy a break man need changes once in a while
uve been married 14 year thats not a day his tired of looking at ur old p u s sy
let the guy dream
thats what might bring the fire back in ur relationship
u will not loose him
be happy he is not F U C K I N G her
2006-12-05 01:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by charles l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't let it bother you........it's not just a male thing......it is just human nature to want to look......he didn't go home with her and of coarse he isn't going to tell u because of how you feel. If you were more open minded to understand that it is just a on and off again thing then it probably wouldn't be a big deal and then maybe he can share what he see's and get a good laugh together or hell you never know it may do something for the both of you..........add some spice.........
2006-12-05 01:03:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋