Am getting tried with her, She is mad at me and wouldn't tell me what the hell is wrong, When I call her to talk she screams at me then insults me, At school her freinds are acting like am a bad guy, What the hell Did I do
I think I should totally break up
When I say do you want to break up she says no
What the hell is her problem
I have a lot of ladies waiting for me anyways why should I wast my time with her
2006-12-04 15:33:04 · 29 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ok, you dont "ask" her to break up. You just sit her down and say "I'm sorry [insert girlfriend's name here], but it's not working out. I'm breaking up with you" and leave it at that.
Sorry it didnt work out.
2006-12-04 16:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
..ok first of all ryan..
"I have a lot of ladies waiting for me anyways why should I wast my time with her"..a very very sick thing to say..ok?
second of all..maybe it's jus now..maybe she has some problems going on.. fine she gets angry, screams, insults, ask her once what's wrong , ask her twice..if she still continues..take the high road..don't get angry and start shouting back..eventualyl she will realise that it's not you who she should shout at. I personally don't think you break up with her..and i have a feeling that u don't want to to..because if u did, you wud'nt have posted this on the net..you would either taken the decision on u'r own..or asked ur close friends..
see..this is one of things u shud understand.. it's only genuine when u wanna be around the person when things between u guys really suck..not when ur all happy and jolly..
good luck dude! lemme no what happens
2006-12-04 15:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by eco_notes 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her that she makes you fell______________
(insert bad emotion)
When she acts like that. Ask her whats wrong. If she ignores you or doesn't care about your feelings, then it's time to move on, But, DO NOT leave her just because you have other girls waiting. When you are in a relationship you do not have other people waiting and you do not think about other people you could date. When you are in a relationship you are in that relationship until it is over. If you think about other girls who are 'waiting' for you to break up so that they can have you, maybe she deserves better. I don't know, maybe it is not like this, this is just how you made it sound.
2006-12-04 15:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by La La La 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be with a person if they are not treating you the way that you want to be treated. If you don't like how she is treating you then you need to break up with her obviously. What's the point in staying with someone if they are constantly being a bit*h to you all the time? To me, she is just a waste of time and energy.
2006-12-05 01:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be something like a misenderstanding. She said that she doesn't want to break up so she still loves you. At least, try to understand what was up with her and know why she acts like that. She didn't cheat on you, didn't beat you up. Till here, I guess she is still loyal. Don't mind her friends. Tomorrow morning, demand a serious talk with her.
2006-12-04 16:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you must know whats your feelings..do you still love her (your girlfriend)? if you do, ask her why she acts like that to you.and also ask her if she still loves you..coz you know there must be reason why she insults and shout at you..and when you ask her about break up she said no,then ask the reason why shes doing all this... if you think you did nothing wrong to her then its her problem not yours...finally if your not happy with the relationship, why wasting your time to a girl who always insult you!... as you said lot of ladies waiting out there...
2006-12-04 16:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by aleish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess your right but sometimes us girls go through our moody stages if it's been going on for a long time you could dump her, just try talking to her one last time before you do break up.
You probably will still be the bad guy for a bit but they will get over it eventually
2006-12-04 15:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your options open-always. Don't put up with someone screaming at you, or insulting you. Who care's what her friends think anyways?
Step back for a while, quit asking her if ANYTHING is wrong-don't even ask. She might re-think how she's treating you and apologize. If she doesn't-her loss right?
2006-12-04 15:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds childish and maybe like she has an attitude problem Lose her ASAP and go on with your life. I doubt you will ever look back and regret it. Life is too short to use it up being unhappy. Good luck to you!
2006-12-04 15:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww Ryan shes like going crazy. I'm sorry about that. lol plus you seem to be a ladies man. Just do it, like Nike
2006-12-04 16:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by meshaangel2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋