Ok my Dad made me say that I was gonna save my self til like marriage. He said we are going to doctor to see if I have had sex on Saturday. I know its super stupid I didn't know he was serious or has strong beliefs abt sex. But I have had sex like 10 times already and am 13. But its with only one girl. He said if it proved right he will kill me and I will not eat in this house.Do you think he is serious about this cuz It sounds like a joke to me
2006-12-04 15:13:55 · 17 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
omg haha im sry but wow i didnt know guys could be checked to see if they had sex or wutever but if it can be done theres no way to like tell him any different and dont worry he will eventually forget about it
2006-12-04 15:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is going overboard, that is for sure. Instead of using scare tactics, he needs to sit you down and share with you the consequences of sleeping around. Though your dad is going about it the wrong way, his point is valid. You are only 13, for heaven's sake. "Safe" is never truly safe. Condoms prevent pregnancy most of the time, and also many STD's... but not all. Like HIV. I assume you don't want to contract this deadly precursor to AIDS. Please, for your own sake... you need to stop sleeping around. At 13, you aren't mature enough to be making such heavy decisions... and if you keep it up, there's a good chance you'll contract something that you'll to live with the rest of your life. Give it some thought.
2006-12-04 23:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Paul T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, it is not possible to check if a guy is virgin or not. I think he says that to scare you soo you wouldn't do it. Second, WHAT THE HELLL!? You are 13 and had sex already? I dunno what to say but i would consider that maybe serious. Before you go into those deep details, get friends, get good grades, and don't destroy girls futur. Personnaly, I think this world is soooo screwed up!! kids are having sex already so what's the point of having a rating of 18+ for porn?
2006-12-05 00:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He can't tell if you've had sex or not. Tell him that your principal talked to you in the bathroom and said that you should save yourself for marriage by only having something called "anal sex." Say he demonstrated it for you and you still don't know how you're supposed to do it on a girl. he'll leave you alone, and you'll never have to deal with that weird principal again.
2006-12-05 00:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by glowe126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad loves you and only wants what is best for you. He doesn't want you to screw with your life. Your SO young yet and have a lifetime ahead of you!!! Sometimes parents will go to the extremes if they feel like they are losing there child to something they have no control over. You may have only have had sex with one girl but please do remember the consequences of your actions. i.e getting her pregnant. I hope you are playing it safe. If your old enough to have sex you should be old enough/mature enough to be responsible for your actions. You got to ask yourself this, are you ready to be a father? Keep that in mind. Good luck.
2006-12-04 23:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't honestly know how your dad is, so if he's joking or not.
if you get tested and your dad found out.
just admit you are wrong, apologize. say it was wrong of me. something along those lines. it will ease it up a bit...
just explain it to him.
but he would really have a guilty conscience of kicking you out since you are only 13. he prob wouldnt but then again i don't really know your dad.
if he does, crash at someone's place.
he would prob want you back anyways.
2006-12-04 23:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by CAT. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is any way to tell that a man has had sex except asking or a lie detector test.
2006-12-05 10:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by niptuck2630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think the doctor can prove anything cause your a guy. If you were a girl that would be different.
2006-12-04 23:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by angel01182 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow ur only 13 and have had sex before me and I'm only 16. whats the world coming to these days.Well lol i already know the answer to that:SEX!!
2006-12-05 00:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by meshaangel2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no scientific medical proven way to see if a guy or girl hs had sex
2006-12-04 23:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by killer_a289 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋