2006-12-04 14:57:22 · 27 answers · asked by Meems 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, but it will probably take you longer than two months to get divorced...I will give you four months
2006-12-04 14:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many factors come into play here:
a) Socio-economic/ethic/faith sub-culture;
b) Family compatability;
c) Age
d) Education level compatability
e) The hard issues settled such as # of children/when; economics, who works and who watches the children; who handles the day to day expenses - pays the bills.
f) Are addiciton - drug/alcohol/porn - involved. Marriage doesn't solve these.
g) Religion - are they compatable.
h) How long since a break up by either party from another significant relationship.
As a pastor, I would marry a 2 monther, but for their sake and for their happiness in future years, I would want to talk to them about these issues.
Congratulations.
2006-12-04 23:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH YEEEEESSSS! Give it a few more months maybe on your 9th month or something but let me tell you the married life is really difficult. Im still in the early stages of my marriage and here I am seeking answers through a forum. Good luck to both of you and hope for the best.
2006-12-04 23:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Macky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get married after 2 months and find out later that it was a mistake, you have to go through a divorce, which is emotionally, financially and legally draining. If you decide after 2 months that this person is awesome and you want to continue dating him for a while, but then later find out that it was a mistake, all you have to do is breakup, lick your wounds and get back out there.
Wait a year and then reevaluate.
2006-12-04 23:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Julie N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually my best friends parents knew each other only 2 weeks and got married they have been married now 38 years. My parents went on one date and were married 2 months later and remained married until my mothers death, they were married 35 years.
2006-12-04 23:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a couple should wait at least one year. Two months people are not really showing who they are. In the beginning stages of any relationship people put on airs, they show you what they want you to see. I think some investigating should go on, meet the fiance's family members, anyone who knows them...and get the 411
2006-12-04 23:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all the time you have spent together yes. If you talked though e-mail or letters for a longer period and you truly feel you know that person well then maybe not.
Never jump into marriage. If you do you may be sorry. Marriage can come at a later date. If you fear putting it off may loose your love then you never really had them.
2006-12-04 23:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i was with a guy for 3 1/2 years and he still turned out to be someoneI would never want to marry!
2006-12-04 23:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by sn3w14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom always gives me this advice: Know someone through the 4 seasons before getting married. (People change when the seasons change; you need to see a person's true colors)
2006-12-04 23:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by lexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got married 6 months after i met my husband. instantly became engaged. sooo from experience im telling you to get to know the guy a LOT more. men change as soon as you marry them. i am still married btw so it can work out.
2006-12-04 23:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Tessa♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah the best thing to do is live together for awhile learn each other. Right now you two are still really strangers.
2006-12-04 23:28:04 · answer #11 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋