How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to have this baby. Having this baby would be an inconvient to me and I just rather have an abortion, so I don’t have to be responsible for this child. I like to party, drink, and hang out with, not spend all my time raising a child. I have already had 12 abortions, so another one is no big deal to me. I see abortion as an easy way out, so I don’t have to care for him/her. I feel that its just to much work raising a child because I don't want it cutting into my fun time. If I wanted to I could financially afford my child and provide a nice home for him, but why should I raise him if I don’t want to. I also do not want to go through the whole adoption procedure because its to much work on my part. How do I tell my boyfriend that there is nothing wrong with me have an abortion. I have no feeling for this child what so ever. He says what I am doing is disgusting. Its my choice and I chose not to have this child. How do I tell my b/f that, I don’t want to lose him over this.
2006-12-04 14:32:26 · 23 answers · asked by becky c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I also don't want to carry this baby to full term because their is to much pain involved.
2006-12-04 15:02:36 · update #1
Your bf is right........you are disgusting. If you don't want a baby, keep your legs closed!!!!!!! You are the very reason that abortions should be illegal!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 14:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I am pro-choice. I do think that any one who has had 12 abortions should seriously consider another form of birth control including an IUD or a tubal ligation because it sounds as if you never want children.
As far as the pregnancy goes if you have been partying while pregnant then the fetus may have already been been effected.
You and your boyfriend sound like you are on different ends of the issue which will always be a problem in your relationship weather you have a child you don't want or if you abort the child he does want. The relationship is doomed. He will never forgive you if he feels that strongly. You have no desire to carry a pregnancy to term.. There is no win win.
2006-12-04 16:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by wes41550 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you freaking serious? I mean what the hell!? At what point is having multiple abortions not way more expensive than just using the freaking PILL?! or shot or ring or implant or get your tubes tied or whatever. Seriously. I am pro choice, but this is getting ridiculous when you start having more than maybe one or two abortions. After all there are "accidents" and then there's just idiocy. In fact I would say that if a person who has more than one abortion and uses any kind of state or federal assistance to get that second or subsequent abortion they should be sterilized by the doctor in the same procedure, so they can't ever get pregnant again. There are just better ways of handling this than getting abortions. Get your head out of your rear!
2006-12-06 08:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all use a condom or some form of contraception. Abortions are not a form of BC, c'mon. You may lack in responsibility but guess what, this sort of behavior is very dangerous, you can pick up all sorts of diseases and your body can be scarred (for life)
Seriously what I think you should do is if you do not want this child at all, make an adoption agreement with your boyfriend. If he wants this baby, ad you don't let him adopt and you give up every parental right.
If you are this against children you should have a hysterectomy. This is really risky and as I said earlier can hurt you in the long run.
Amy
2006-12-04 14:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this question actually written by a Pro-life person? You have pointed out the worst possible scenario and most people learn there lesson after having an abortion.
What country allows women to have so many abortions.
2006-12-04 16:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by babycakes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are totally wrong. 12 abortions. That's 12 babies that 12 people are trying to have right now. I don't think that it is just the woman that can make that decision, but also the man. He has the right to the child as much as you do.
2006-12-04 14:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Keep your damn legs closed or get fixed what is wrong with you maybe 1 or 2 is not so bad but 12 and what is 1 more are you all there in the head stop having sex!!!!!!!!!! If i was your boyfriend I would go the the courts and force you ta have this baby and take it from you
2006-12-04 14:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to get on birth control and buy a massive amount of condoms if you've had 12 abortions. I agree with the other posters... stop having unprotected sex. You need to grow up and take responsibility for your actions. I don't mean to sound harsh and I am pro-choice, but 12? Well 13 counting this one.
2006-12-04 14:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by TigerBaby 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can always have your baby and leave it at a clinic NO QUESTIONS ASKED. it's not hard on your part. And just so you know i was 17 when i had my baby and i'm 18 now and she has made my life so complete. Why don't you try and stop being stupid by drinking and drugs or whatever you do and think before you decide to become pregnant. It's called PROTECTION. or at least take the morning after pill for gods sake. If you believe in God and the 10 comandments you better not have an abortion THOU SHALT NOT KILL and that's what you will be doing if you go through with it.
I'm not trying to force my beliefs on people. If they believe in God even if they think it's (a fetus) and not a baby you're still killing the fetus. which if you believe in God the comandment says "Thou Shalt Not Kill" that's all i'm sayin
ps. GET YOUR DAMN TUBES TIED
Dude people i am not making up her mind for her i am just stating THE TRUTH. why don't you look at the f-n abortion websites and see for yourself. These babies come out as BABIES and if you want to kill them go right ahead i just hope to God that he has mercy on your soul. they'll be a place for all you abortion people in hell right next to the devil.
2006-12-04 14:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha M 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Just get the damn uterus taken out now, so we don't have to deal with your offspring in the future. . .
Obviously, this is some sick way of slamming those that are pro-choice by some narrow-minded conservative thinking person that chooses to forse their beliefs upon everyone.
Coming on Yahoo Answers isn't the way to prevent abortions. EDUCATION is - as in getting to the kiddies before they have sex.
See, making abortion illegal will not stop abortions; it will only cause more deaths because unlicensed people will be doing them, and they will not have the proper facilities, instruments, or sterilization. They will cause infections, or death. I would rather keep it legal, and keep the government regulating it than cause more death. . . Isn't that what the "pro life" people are looking to do? Or is it that you want to save lives - but on your terms?
2006-12-04 14:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Wow, you have already had 12 abortions. I had one 2 years ago and I could never go through that again. I am not one to get on here and judge others, but maybe you need to get on birth control or something. More than likely you will lose your boyfriend over this, because what if this is his only chance to have a child and you abort it. It is completely your decision though, but I would think long and hard about it.
2006-12-04 14:35:35 · answer #11 · answered by Mommy To Be in April 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋