Okay my friend has been coming over and i'm starting to like him. He claims he's straight but people say he's bi and some say he's gay. Me i'm gay. already have massaged his upper body starting at his back and going to to his neck and back down playing with his nipples. I got all the way down to his belt and unbuckled it then he said he had to go pee then he came back and got on myspace like nutin happend. Then just yesterday I slept with him. I didn't have sex with him but I held him very close to me. Like i was exactly contoured to his body he was in front and I was in back. Before we went to bed I gave him a long massage just his back. Then like at 12pm the next day I massaged him again and i was feeling on his butt and he wasn't telling me to stop or anything he just sat there he says his back hurts thats why he wants massages but he acts like nutin when I feel on his but and everything. I should I move on with this relationship. I already have this question looking for new answer.
2006-12-04 14:25:14 · 11 answers · asked by yugisdaddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok a guy will not let another guy massage him or touch his butt or anything else unless he wants you to...no offense but a guy that is straight would freak out being touched by another guy....he is probably nervous since you two have been best friends, sex can change that.....
2006-12-04 14:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a straight guy I'd say your friend is definately gay or bi and interested for sure. If you tried to massage my back it would be your last attempt. He seems to be struggling with his sexuality.
2006-12-04 14:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Chad C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go any further. My best friend (guy) fell for me, I gave it a go and now we don't talk and haven't talked for about 4 years and I fully regret it. I wish it had never happened. I lost my best friend.
Maybe back off a bit and see what he does. See if he starts making moves on you.
2006-12-04 14:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by brooksta3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is understanding your intentions then you need to say what you mean and ask him what's up dude. How can you not like it. Just ask him if he wants to have sex and get right to the point cause other wise he will drive you nuts
2006-12-04 14:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by BonBon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one guy lets the other guy spoon him he's definately gay. Next time kiss the back of his neck and see how he responds.
2006-12-04 14:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead. this relationship sounds promising. and i think its really rude for someone to give this question a thumbs down. i give it a thumbs up. i would like to do those things with my crush. i'm bi. my crush is a guy.
2006-12-04 14:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Christ Follower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was the most beutiful thing i've ever heard.
yes, move on with the relationship!
i'm sooooo jelous of you!
2006-12-04 14:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Antonio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know what he is is to ask him, and I believe you should before you get rejected for improper advances
2006-12-04 14:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it
seriosuly
im not just saying this to get two points
talk to him about it
and go for it
2006-12-04 14:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT IF HE KNOWS YOUR GAY
2006-12-04 14:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by xsabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋