Ok i just got done with undergrad, now what?? look for a job?? I dont know where to start... i mean i want to do a lot of things im in my early 20's. How do you know that the career path you're taking is the right one? Im afraid to choose one path, and find out that its not what I want.. I dont want to waste time and effort on that path.. How do you know what you are suppose to be when you grow up? I am starting my masters program next year, and that would be for 2 more years. I guess my life is boring, all i have is homework. All my other freinds, are married have families, have a nice house and going for things..
2006-12-04 14:18:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
...you're still young. Talk to a career counselor at your school and find out what type of interest you may have. You did not mentioned your degree of study, so I'm not sure what kind of occupational advice I can give you. Don't worry about what your friends are doing, they probably envy you since you're free to explore and experience life and career before marriage, kids, and piling on debt that's associated with the car, house, etc...Attend job fairs; network amongst other students of your major and find out what type of jobs are in that field...
Hang in There, you're headed in the right direction.
Many Blessings to You!
2006-12-04 14:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In short the answer is: "Do what makes you happy"
But, do you really know what makes you happy? Are you sure what make you happy today will make you happy five or ten year from now? You might not be so sure.
You are however on the right track especially since you are asking the right question. The answer is not as simple as one could give here. There are many factors involved such as your field of study, your interest, your long term goals, your view of the world, and the most important of all your perception of life. I know this sounds very philosophical but these are all hidden in the nature of your question.
Getting married at a young age does not necessarily have any conflict with going for higher education or starting a career. I got married at the age of 20. My wife was 17, and we had our first child a couple of years later while at school. Despite all the hardship, my wife and I managed to earn our Ph.Ds and advance in our careers. I'll be happy to share my experience with you. Send me an e-mail if you like.
2006-12-04 14:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Heman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I turned 40 a few days ago and I still do not know what I want to be when I grow up. You are in your early 20's, you have a little time to "waste". Its not a waste of time to finish college. At the very least finish your masters. Something will come along, something will catch your eye. You will find what you want to do. Until then its not about the destination, its about the journey. Feel free to take exit 47 and see the world's oldest apple tree. There's time.
2006-12-04 14:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will go down a lot of different paths in life so don't think once you choose that's it forever.
Give yourself some room to find out what you're interested in and find out about yourself.
Personally I think at this stage in your life what you're doing is very smart.
Getting married and having children is a big big responsibility.....have some fun first before you go down that path.
Remember the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-12-04 14:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point if you're not sure what career path to choose and stick with why don't you take classes that would benefit you in any career situation (i.e. mngmt, communication, computer skills, etc.) until you decide.
Also do some soul-searching of what truly makes you happy, satisfied--fulfilled. A career isn't just about money--you should enjoy what you do.
2006-12-04 14:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by somecut005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your college career outlook and they can help you find work if that is what you want. I would suggest working a little before entering the masters program so that you know for sure that you are taking the right step. the best way to know for sure is to get out there and do it
2006-12-04 14:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've completed undergrad and are starting in on your master's? It sounds like you've got this life thing down. I should be going to you for answers.
2006-12-04 14:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to feel complete with whatever you do. It looks as if right now, your education is very important to you. Regardless of what your friends are you, you do what YOU must do. Good friends will respect your decisions and will realize that you are doin what is best for you.
2006-12-04 14:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by pinkforyouonly21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are several tests that you can take. If you go to ask.com and put in ....what job is right for me.....or something like that then they will give you all these tests that you can take. Look for the free ones.
2006-12-04 14:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 21 and im not married and dont have a family
not every one is looking for that kind of thing
2006-12-04 14:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋